Over thinking...but please be honest

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by andezzz, Jan 5, 2013.

  1. andezzz

    andezzz Guest

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    Would you assume that if you met up with your ex for lunch and they said that they met up with a friend (and your mind goes to the girl theyve been talking about/seeing since they broke up with you) and that she didn't go home last night, that they slept together? It's been 2 weeks since we broke up and it sounds so ridiculous I am dwelling on this. I am over her in terms of feelings for her but its always hard when there is someone else... Please be honest because I hate over thinking :(
     
  2. lovemygirl92

    lovemygirl92 Guest

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    it seems like you still have feelings for her, i am worried about the same thing with my ex, the thought of someone else having her is just a horrible feeling. maybe date someone else? hang out with someone else, look as if you are really enjoying it and maybe she will get jelous, and it will make you feel a lot better
     
  3. andezzz

    andezzz Guest

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    The only thing I struggle with is seeing her with someone else, which is probably the hardest part of breaking up. She kept saying that I should miss her as a friend, we are better of as friends. I get it already! But yeah I need to hang out with new people for sure as she seems to think I am still chasing her, which I am definitely not doing anymore!
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Assume they slept together. Also assume it was the lousiest sex ever and the girl stanks down below. Haha. Now walk with a smile on yer dial!
     
  5. babyjay

    babyjay Senior Member

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    two weeks ain't a long time. of course you still have feelings for this person.

    but sex is just sex. you're broken up, they're free to fuck whoever they please, and so are you. do the best you can to forget about it, dwelling on something like that will only succeed in being unhealthy.

    you should definitely attempt to get yourself out there. find someone new!
     
  6. andezzz

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    Thanks for your replies!!!!!
     

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