My relationship - dead end?

Me and my girlfriend have been together for a couple of years now.
She never hugs me back when I hug her.
She refuses to have a reasonable conversation with me. Her point of view always has to be the 'right' point of view.
We don't find each other sexually appealing.
She's always kind of flirty with other guys, but she doesn't even let me have a female friend.
She's constantly very mean to me.

I'm not at all happy when I'm with her. This might sound gay, but she makes me cry a lot.

I don't know what to do anymore. I simply can't break up with her - tried that before, and I couldn't stand being without her.
It feels like she's become a part of my personality, and I can't be an individual anymore.

As I said, I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

this is a pretty straightforward one. BREAK UP WITH HER.

from what you say here, there is absolutely no good side to being with her. when you did break up with her, what couldn't you stand about being without her? didn't like the lack of misery?

 

I didn't like being alone. It feels like she fills a gap somehow. :/

 

i can't imagine being alone would be worse than being with someone that makes you miserable. and you can't really even try to find someone better if you're stuck with her.

 

What has happened is she has opened up a wound. Now you can play her at her own game or leave.

 

Same happened with me and I can honestly say that leaving was the best thing I ever did... You can be happy without her, the gap closes eventually or becomes someone elses
First week or few will be tough being alone but they get better until one day you'll thank yourself!

 

I was once where you are now.

find someone else.

she is killing you.

 

Break up! It's gonna hurt because we humans don't like change, we prefer the familiar even if that means the familiar is a negative situation.


But you'll get past it after a while.

You have an X amount of time in life, move on to find another better girl for you. HURRY your wasting time and that is your TRUE loss.

 

That is kind of awful. No offense, but I wouldn't want to have a boyfriend like that, too much pressure :-(
Work on that. Seriously.

 

dump her. learn to become a person.