Alright, so hey guys I'm new to this forum, and I already love it, but I'm not sure if there has already been a forum about this, or what but I need some advice. Okay so I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 4 months, which doesn't seem like a long time, but we are actually very very serious. We love each other, but there is one thing that just...I can't get off of my mind. You see, she just came out last year, and I'm only the second girl she has been with, and I'm the first girl shes been with sexually. So naturally, she has got some problems with being as open as I am about her sexuality. I'm not asking her to run down the streets painted rainbow with a huge rainbow flag flowing behind her. I'm just asking for her to maybe hold my hand at the mall, or in the hallways at school. She's afraid of judgement, and I'm not really sure how to help her move past this and make her more comfortable. I tried to kiss her on the cheek one time as I dropped her off at class one day and she pulled away and apologized. I don't want her apology, I just want her to not be ashamed of me, and us. Any advice on what I should do guys? Help!! ha
She's not ashamed. Just give her time. Personally I am not very open myself, so I don't really show public affection, it just takes time to accept your orientation.
Yes its true!And i think that is similar to me!Just give her some time,eventually she will do it comfortably.
