Guys : Looking Down Womens Clothing Tops

Can't we put the rape analogy to rest yet? No girls ask to get raped, regardless of what they wear (or don't wear for that matter). And no one has the right to rape anyone, period! The same as I'm not asking to get robbed if I walk through the bad part of town with 100,000 dollars worth of jewelry draped all over me, with a wad of money in my pockets. And no one has the right to rob me if I do so. But we all know that if I were to do just that, chances are I'm going to put myself in that very situation... whether I like it or not.

So those of us who are smart know when to show restraint and don't put ourselves in situations where bad things are very likely to happen. Which is the point the not so intelligent people try to make with stupid statements like "she was asking to get raped, dressing like that". But the reality is that people also get raped and robbed when they don't flaunt anything.

Bottom line, ignorant people will make ignorant comments. You just have to move on and hope they become a bit more educated.

 

I love to look and I don't mind being looked at in return. If I had a problem with people oogling my tits or other parts I wouldn't wear things that showed them off

 

So if a guy complimented you on your breasts, you would thank him or make another comment?

 

:rofl:

 

Not really.
I'm going to notice her figure, yes, and her breasts. 'Notice' being the key word.
But glare at her breasts? Nagh, not anymore. I prefer eyes nowadays.

 

No problem looking, just don't reach out and give em a squeeze (unless she's into that sort of thing).

 

Hmm. Once in a while I'll death glare her boobs, kind of saying "you know you're fucking flaunting the shit out of them. If you're gonna be that classless, so am I." but I usually just notice and move on.

 

BOOBS...

 

Yes, sometimes it safer to touch a females breasts with your eyes & not your hands. But some are a bit more willing to let you have a quick touch with your hands.

 

2012 version:

 

Yes discreetly

 

I don't care if my boobs get some glances, but please don't gawk and drool over them.

 

Oh,I promise I'll wipe the drool off very gently,bailz......

 

Alcohol puts an individual at risk for getting raped more than anything else though, probably more so than any clothing. So I kinda reject the assertion you're trying to make, but also understand what your trying to say in general.

Now that to me, is going to far.

You also have to realize that, as a general rule, the really early teen girls are dressing like that to try to get the attention of boys close to their own age (give or take 6 years), and are completely ignorant to the fact that they might be attracting the attention of older men.

Winking or leering at them would and probably does freak them out and could land you in serious trouble.

Exactly. And yes let's please put the rape analogy and comparisons to rest.

This topic was purely about wandering eyes and the morality and acceptance, or not, of them and nothing more.

Umm no not acceptable, once you cross that line into touching then gauging their reaction...just no. Now if you're in a relationship where touch is implied to occur then fine.

 

Look as If its the most natural thing in the world. Don't leer, be appreciative and then move on

 

Yes I do and the other day christmas shopping I notice the sale girl seem me looking at her and when she went to get the box she actually invited me.

 

Even I do this. The Latina receptionist at the doctor's office yesterday had nice cleavage and a nice plump pair of juggies.

 

I love staring down their shirts and I make sure that they know it. Gosh the other day I was studying with a girl who had her shirt open low and I practically stared at them, She ended up covering up but she was blushing the whole time.

Nothing like a big pair of tits to stare, love me some eye candy

 

Yes, all the time. When a woman is wearing something low cut or bends over and reveals her assets I can't seem to help but sneak a peek. Also I will look down a blouse if I'm standing over a woman and her top lends itself to seeing down there. I <3 boobies.

 

I only tend (most of time) to look down womens tops that have small breasts - hoping they may have forgotten to wear a bra that day or aren't shy to show what they have under their skimpy clothing. Dressing to impress or dare to bare.