Confused about my sexual preference

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by TheSamantha, Dec 16, 2012.

  1. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

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    -I usually masturbate to girl/girl porn. I get aroused by the sight of a sexy naked woman and it has been this way since I was about 12. I usually climax with my clit looking at women.

    -I'm attracted to macho men and enjoy sex with them. I have orgasms from intercourse depending on the dick size/shape and the motions.

    -I can get aroused and masturbate to many things that I wouldn't act on.

    -I have had sex with about 3 or 4 girls. I never got aroused or achieved orgasm from eating them out or playing with them.

    -When I watch straight porn, I put myself in the guy's position playing with the girl. Sometimes I fantasize that I am one of many men playing with a submissive slut.

    -I couldn't see myself in a monogamous relationship with anyone. I am particularly wary about relationships with women because of the way women typically are (emotional, clingy) and also because I'm not good at eating pussy yet plus I don't get aroused by it when I'm actually doing it. This may be because I'm not in the guy's position, but in a second girl's position. I do enjoy it.

    -I don't get aroused or orgasmic by sucking dick either. I do enjoy it.

    -I check out women and men on the street. But I don't know if I'm just seeing a pretty girl like any woman would say "she looks pretty/cute". I do think "I'd do him/her."
     
  2. bifus

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    Hi!

    What are you confused about specifically? You sound like you know what you like and don't like.
     
  3. TheSamantha

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    Hi! I'm confused about if this makes me a lesbian, straight, or bi.
     
  4. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    Well, according to another thread you started, you've had 58 male partners. This thread says you've had 3-4 girls, you aren't any good at eating pussy, you like fucking macho guys and you have fantasies about women you encounter in the street.

    On sheer numbers, and assuming a straight gal is a 1 and full lesbian is a 10, you sound like a 2-3 on the sexual Pref-O-Meter (c) (TM). Almost fully straight.

    The Pref-O-Meter (c) (TM) is my own invention, you're welcome to see it anytime TheSamantha..... ;)
     
  5. TheSamantha

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    Thanks for your input:)

    3-4 girls because I don't know who's into girls and who isn't and because girls tend to go for relationships rather than casual sex. Not that great at eating pussy because not experienced enough, need practice.

    I think the main issue is that I don't get aroused while eating pussy. Why is that, when I get aroused by looking at girls and check them out on the street in a lusty way?

    Anyone else care to weigh in?
     
  6. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Boy, a couple weeks ago I was eating some pussy and the chick said "Eat it HARD." It's usually the opposite, where I have to be all careful and shit. I was sucking on that like a smoothie and had my whole face covered in pussy goo.

    I'm still cumming buckets just thinking about that shit. :biggrin:

    Edit: I slept without washing my face, too.
     
  7. TheSamantha

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    Thanks for your input. I've been identifying as bisexual for years but I just can't help but wonder if I'm bisexual, I don't come off of eating a girl out.
     
  8. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Heterosexual males don't either, the question is whether you cum off of being eaten by a lady. Ok...a whore.
     
  9. TheSamantha

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    Yeah I come off of being eaten by a whore. :sunny: I also have a fantasy of us rubbing our clits together. But I don't even feel any arousal when I eat a girl out and you said you get rock hard when you do that.
     
  10. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Shit yeah! :sunny: If it weren't for anal sex and cum in mouth, eating pussy might have been my favorite thing to do ever! Haha!

    Maybe you're just a bottom.
     
  11. babyjay

    babyjay Senior Member

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    are labels really important? just have fun, do as you please, and share with people whatever you want them to know. i'd say.... you're bisexual.
    just because you don't orgasm off of pleasuring someone else doesn't speak to me that you aren't attracted to whoever/whatever gender you're pleasing.
     
  12. TheSamantha

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    Thanks you two for your input.

    It's so true that labels can be so stupid. I wish we didn't have to use them. Or for fun we could make up random ones like polymorphosexual, like what they used to with race in Brazil. Labels are like boxes. But in sorta seems like in this world people get you to end up using labels. Like if you don't use labels and get suspicious like oh he's ashamed to be gay.
     
  13. Rabbit420

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    You think you're confused. I been totally into women all my life, but lately I have found myself perusing the internet looking for photos of handsome cocks. I have thoughts and fantasies about stroking and sucking another man's cock. I get erect imaging what it would feel like to have an erect penis between my lips and how his semen would taste as he ejaculated into my mouth. I've never had a thing for men emotionally or sexually, but lately these thoughts and fantasies have been flooding my brain.

     
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