Where abouts in Germany? I live in Mittenwald on the border of Bavaria/Austria. It's surprisingly above 0* right now.
i live in a very very small village in baden-württemberg about an hour away from karlsruhe. here it's under -2.
My town is not very large either, it basically survives off of snow season and tourists. You're a bit young but when you are a couple years older try heading east into Poland/Krakow. It's the most lesbian friendly place I've been which is weird because you never think Christian Poland would accept that but every time I'm there I see women always in the hands of other women.