I've been sexually active for a little more than a year. I realize that a woman's brain is the biggest part of sex but when I have intercourse, I don't feel anything. There's not sensation other than a vague sensation of intrusion in my girlie parts. There usually comes a time when I get frustrated and give up. No man has been able to give me an orgasm. I make jokes that I have a dead vagina. But I'm genuinely concerned I wont ever get to enjoy sex. Help!
i wonder what it smells like... if you really can't feel anything down there, something may be wrong with it.
I guess it is possable that you have little feelings in your vagina , its more likely that they have a small penis or there just not doing things rite . If a guy hits bottom , do you feel that ? Most women enjoy that feeling . If a guy licks you , do you enjoy it ? desert rat
You are responsible for your own orgasm. I suggest you explore yourself and find out what you like, because sex isn't about him giving you an orgasm. P.S. I've only heard of a few women who could orgasm from penetration alone. That is why you have a clitoris.
Get your self a big viberating dildo , see if you feel that . Push it to the bottom , see how that feels , find your g spot http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G_spot desert rat
I'm sure that you are fine physically. I think you need to experiment with yourself to really find out what works for you.
As a reply to everyone: I have had intercourse recently that my vagina is not dead. I haven't achieved release but I now see it's possible. I figured out it's user error. MY VAGINA IS NOT ROADKILL!!! So.... I have that to be happy about. =^_^=
While your brain have a big part in sex functions, over thinking sex can lead to a "dead" nonorgasmic experience. The orgasmic experience is about loosing yourself in the moment, not thinking, not analyzing, just feeling. Really it is something intangible happening, it like a state of no mind. You have to let go completely and let the sensation take over. Feel your sexual energy, don't think, feel!! Like Bruce Lee said! Use more of your heart and vagina rather than your brain. Also find your rhythm, find the speed in which you pump yourself up. So it builds and builds and builds, so when there is a release, it is a rush of orgasmic energy!