hey! so i have a little problem.. i'm 16 now and since i was 12 i knew i was gay. but i never had a girlfriend and i don't know any other lesbian since i live in a little village. plus i don't like going to parties and such. so i wanted to ask if someone has a idea where i could get to know other lesbians?
Keeping to yourself, staying at home, and being isolated will never be helpful....so go out and meet girls...also online groups/forums for LGBT can help you find someone you are after..
Rebeca is right. But if you don't like parties, then going to them won't help. If you're obviously uncomfortable and not enjoying yourself, you'll not be sending out the right vibes. So I'd say hit the forums. Look for like-minded people. Get to know them online. If it's not a specifically gay forum, bide your time and them come out to them when you feel ready and comfortable. If they turn out to be gay or bi, suggest you meet some time to do something that you both like, and take it from there.
okay thank you! i will try the forums though it's really hard to find one where young lesbians meet most are for older ones but i guess it's worth a try
