Body Language with Girl

The other day, when walking with this girl I've the hots for, we came across a narrow point in the corridor because of the accumulation of people. It felt sort of awkward. We had only been walking together for a couple of seconds so
I didn't really feel as if I 'had her' so I made the decision to walk ahead of her and then wait which didn't look that good for some reason.

I guess really I should guided her first. Then I would have had the pleasure of seeing her wait for me for a change. Little things like this are big things and they annoy me when I have so few opportunities. My question is, how bad did it look?

 

How great is your ass?

 

It probably didn't look that bad. Many women have accepted men don't have to show chivalry anymore. Especially the younger women. Expectations have been set pretty low. But if you would like to change that....go for it! If it had been me, a 51 y/o old fart, I would have noticed you walked ahead, but had also would have admired you if you had let me walk first.

 

It didn't look rude, (as I was sort of in front anyway) its just I fear it didn't look that confident!

 

I hope she look as there's not much of an ass there. She has an nice ass though

 

Going ahead could look like forging. It depends on your speed and shoulders.

 

a real man would have lifted her above the crowd and carried her overhead.

 

Damn, I thought only I was as neurotic and insecure as the OP.

 

I'm not interested in whether you think I'm paranoid or not, but rather your interpretation of what happened?

 

She probably didn't even notice, as these things happen like ten times a day.

 

I don't know, but you should keep dwelling on it.

 

Everything is subconscience

 

You are probably making a big deal out of it, while she barely remembers.
But whatever, overthink it if you like.

 

But she'd defo remember if I had let her go first!

 

I don't think so.
Sometimes someone goes first, it's not a big deal.
She probably walks with several people every day, and does not really care.

 

man up bro, quit worrying about it. this is a trivial thing. You got to work on your inner head game. Girl's can sense stuff like this (even butch fem nazi's)...they all can. Show her you are alpha, not beta/weak. You know what to do.

1. demonstrate high social value around her
2. don't come across like an average frustrated chump
3. devalue her a bit, and make her qualify with you and the things you say. not the other way around.

3a. you can tease her a bit and make some jokes.

picking up girls is an art, but don't loose yourself in the process. you can be ugly and pick up good looking girls biased on just you and how you handle life. it's not all about looks.

Do you have her number ?

 

"qualify"?

 

Yeah I have her number but no replies, which made me think it was a fake number for a while! I'm guessing you're one of those so called PUA guys. I've heard about you lot and the "techniques" you use.. with the whole
"Oh, I need a quick female opinion on something, btw, I'm meeting a friend and I don't have much time" I don't buy all that

 

makes sense. you are the one getting no replies from the girl you're interested in, after all.

 

If thats you in the pic. I would play the chivalry card!
Your eyes are stunning. Very nice