Just thinking maybe the relationships forum should be under mind trips because they are. No need to really change it, I just had that thought while skimming though and thought somebody else might think the same.
It does seem like there are a whole lot of unhealthy, dishonest and abusive relationships out there when reading here for sure! Some of us refuse to live like that though and do have extremily happy, honest and healthy relationships. It seems to be rare though with the all about me way that most like to live these days.
i have always wondered why it's in "alternative lifestyles." if 90% of people think that a certain lifestyle is the only option, i don't think that lifestyle is really alternative.
I have to agree with what you say! I am sure alot of people would think the way my lady and I live our life together is wrong. Not everyone can understand or relate to bringing others into their sex life and I can totally get that. Whatever works for whoever is all good as long as they are not disrespecting the person they are spending their life with. If you only care about yourself then you shouldn't drag someone else along for the ride.