Boyfriend Help Please!!

ok, I have found my first love. But he likes another girl, who lives on the other side of the country, (she visites here once a year) He's been dating her at the same time as me and I questionned him about it and he said he didnt know who he liked better. I told him, that I dont want him to stop talking to her, she was a big help to him when he was suffering depression. I have nothign against her, but I told him to choose one of us for our sake, because, call me selfish I want a bf to myself. He said "Relationships are all a game to me" and he ignored me and my feelings for about an hour before coming back and saying he was gonna break it off with Raquel and be with me.
Now, is it a smart move to stay with him? Or am I blinded with love?

 

Please please please dont call it love. Your 14, it feels like love sure but you'll know the difference when you get older. I'd say dump the kid. He'll cheat he gets half a chance, although at 14 I don't know what that would constitute by todays standards... Long story short, leave him and find yourself a nice guy. Don't go out with the "cool" kids or the badasses or you end up with a dickhead like me who doesn't really care about you. =D

 

k this is seriously weird because I just got done responding to a thread by you. But I dont know. I'm findin myself less happy with myself, and that scares me. Cause I used to be a very up-beat person, now I want to kill something, just for plesure

 

Hey there sister, guys will be guys- and girls will be girls...your 14.. when i was 14 i thought i was madley inlove.. until i work up one day.. and i was like.. i am breaking this off and having fun wiht my life.. i am now 17. i have had one hell of a relationship with this guy for a year and 1/2 and i can truly say i loved him.. becasue we had a connection and all.. and then it got way to seiours.. now i have been single since april.. and i tell you sister.. your 14 go have fun and don't woryr bout the Boys! because these days they can be a waste of time.. unless you plan on marry him.. haha.. Just go out and have fun and enjoy life... Humm well goood luck- and hurting something is not the answer just work it out with your mind.. smoke a joint and sit back and listen to happy music.. and forget about that boy- listen to some grateful dead make sure its happy-hope you feel better about the situation... just- don't do anything stupid because theres many fish in the sea
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hehe, boys are silly. if you really have an issue wiht polygamous relationships ( some people do) then it sounds like this guy isn't for you. hey. that rhymed!

or you can be happy you got him and enjoy the time you spend together. live in the now, not in the then.

 

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for 14 he sounds ahead of the game

lol j/k

 

Don't hang on that guy, when i collects girls like stamps, or just treats them like fuckin bitches.
keep your eyes open for someone who cares about you and your feelings.

 

Thanx, but he told me why he has such strong feeling for Raquel, is because even thought she lives so far away, when she says "I love you" he is positive she means it. oh poo.... but he cares alot for me. I know he does, he;s dont things for me he hasent done for anyother girl. Now should I stick it out for a while, see if he fuckes it up again? Or break if off before something worse happens?
oh and by the way, Pink FLoyd and Homegrown Pot has been a good friend for me.
and dont forget Zeppelin...

 

14 year old guys dont know anything about love.
Dont try to get too emotionally attatched, the odds are not really in your favor.

 

You have your whole life to love. And there's not just "one" person for you...if that were the case, we'd all be really lonely. Don't hold yourself or your life back waiting for some guy you think is perfect. There's no such thing as perfect. But when it's close, it will feel completely opposite from what you feel now, which is neglect and confusion. I say learn from it, and leave it behind.

 

and since she's 14, of course the dude is twenty something..

 

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just tell him, me or her. if he says.. i dunno, then just say "fuck you if your going to be like that, i kept my love for you, but you couldnt do that for me?! fucking bastard!!" there, prob solved

 

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qué?

 

what?

 

werd i doubt its love. and you cant stop a guy from likein another girl. i guess show him some thing he wants??? i accuatly dont kno
best of luck tho

 

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I didn't take things very seriously guy wise at that age. I do think tho that everybody has a bunch of soulmates, and, I don't know maybe you met one. He's prolly not your soulmate if he won't be exclusive tho. But I don't even know about that. Love is so weird and confusing.