Random hook up ends with inability to get it up

So last night some buddies and I were drinking at my place when I got a call from a random number. It was a chick who I had flirted with briefly last spring but nothing came of it and we hadn't talked in about 5 months. She asks very bluntly if I wanted to have sex, so of course i say yes.
Now Im decently drunk and had been smoking weed which I rarely do as i get pretty anxious from it. She gets here, we smoke a cig and then head off to my room.

All was going well she was being very aggressive which i like but when the time came I just couldn't get it up! Nohing she did would work and after a while she left after saying "Its alright it happens all the time to me".

Well that was one of the most embarresing moments in my life as this has never happened before. I've hooked up with people before while more drunk and have had that cause me to not be able to cum but always get it up. Could this be because of he random ans unexpexcted nature of the situation? Was it the herb? Could it he because i havn't gotten laid in about 6 months? Just the alcohol? Im just confused and disapointed about it so any advice would be appreciated.

 

Could be lots of different things that caused the problem! All I can say is don't worry about it, because it is normal. If you think about and worry about it to much it will just cause similier problems the next time around. Just relax you are normal.

 

The other thing I will say is if you find yourself in the same situation again make sure you eat a lot of pussy! At least if you spend the time to get her off there is a better chance of her giving you another try next time around. Plus it also might be enough to get your mind off of your problem and get your unit working again.

 

Probably just wasn't meant to happen. Your penis was protecting you... Also it is probably because you didn't know her that well, you were anxious from pot, so both of the factors could make you nervous and make yo dick not go up.

 

Well at least you don't have to worry about
HER EVER CALLING YOU AGAIN.

 

lol

it's very normal dude. you may have even been rushed. yes, it's possible for a woman to rush a man when it comes to sex! flirting very briefly 5 months ago and then nothing since then . . . maybe your mind is asking all kinds of questions. plus booze is bad for sex.

 

should of taken an aspirin. almost as good as viagra..

 

you were probably thinking that you had to fuck this girl cause you had the chance, rather than really thinking about whether or not you wanted to fuck her

 

if it happens all the time to her, maybe it's because she's unattractive.

 

Neo Citran used to make me so horny lol

 

used to? havent explored it anymore??... lol

I had noticed light dosage of some cold meds get me going. dose under clinical.

 

You need to lay off the beer and weed, those things are horrible for your penis.

Trust me i know, if you want a little drink before sex then have a glass of wine or two, anything more and thats easy enough to kill sensitivity so you cant get it up.


Happened to me before, weed/beer is horrible for your penis. Save it for after the sex.

 

you don't have to combine beer and weed. weed alone is like children's viagra.

 

Yeah I have been told by people that weed makes them horny (mostly in girls it seems) But for some people it can cause E.D , and alcohol can make you horny too but can ALSO cause E.D.

Really if you want to get rid of the nervous feeling then have just one can of beer or one-two glasses of wine. Something really light.

 

Even when I was of school age (back in early / mid 70s) we were familiar with the term "Brewer's Droop", so although nearly all of my peer group were still virgins at that age (although things seem to be very different with teenagers these days), we were well aware of the side effects that alcohol could have when it came to sexual performance.

 

Well as an update, she called back, came by last night and good times were had

 

It's called whiskey dick, bro