hangout for a heterosexual male who is sexist against most of my hetero peers?

My story is a long one for a child of 17 but it currently has me disliking other strait men because they share with me nasty things and believe women to be objects. I prefer to be with female friends but I find that most women do not believe I actually feel this way and think I desire pointless sex and one night stands. That is actually very stereotypical and (maybe even rightfully so) deserving of my kind but makes friends hard to find But where may I find other males who are not creepers and pigs? Because lesbians and gays would just kick me from the forum
But they are easiest to talk to because neither are judging if I am able to prove my sincerity but once again my kind are often viewed as pigs and I have recieved many slaps to the face for trying to suggest that I'm strait and[/] not a pig (pig part applies the females only, men are usually quick to realize sincerity)...
And why have I not heard of stealth trolls outside of this place? They are very common in a couple IRC servers (I have some user names if anyone wants to try to make them not be rude but good luck, these creeps are messed up and have seemingly far too much knowledge of both genders) and are usually hiding behind a screen name and humiliate me by abusing the lack of images to make me think they are opposite gender and ending convoy with very rude comments that make me say things I really don't like saying about homosexuals.

Anyway, is there anyplace for people like me besides the rare forum user who is nice enough to hold PM contact? Or at least any way to approach the lesbian and gay forums Both as clearly not either without getting kicked by admins? I dislike going against admins orders (they have no mercy for rule breakers) and I just want to come here to do exactly what most people think is not possible. If people don't believe me I can post entire weeks worth of PM logs (with usernames deleted of course or post links to threads on other forums with my... Real username but that would be preferred not to be released because I know stealth trolls are likely reading this. And they do not deserve such knowledge.

Again I have no problems associating with lesbians, gays or bisexuals. (those are the current PC terms right?)

And I learned the hard way not to mess with stealth trolls with advanced hack skills... I prefer not to talk 'bout what they did to my proxy server though...

 

However a (real) female was actually willing to help me fix what those trolls did to my stuff (you know who you are but you probably aren't ever going to be in here, but you deserve creds) and she along with 3 others were nice enough to prove to me they were not trolls. It was not easy with 6 stealth trolls and 3 real females to determine who is real and who isn't. That fight was stupid huge. I almost got IP banned for trolls making me say some very rude things that I really don't like saying. But I convinced admins to read the log and they banned the trolls instead.

 

Lol what?

Wtf fuck is a stealth troll? Have you been followed? Is it safe to post here?

Gay people hate on you because you're not gay?

I'm not following any of this.....what are you lookin for?

Men that are not creepers or pigs......on the Internet? I don't think you're looking in the right place. That being said, its real nice here and I'm sure you can find a place to rest your bones here without much trouble.

 

I prefer to hang out with all groups but the 90% of hetero males visible on teh web. (i.e. Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, Heterosexual Females.) I dislike these thoughts so many people call "normal" they disgust me. But most of them are all troll comments/views and I'm not a troll and do not wish to post them. And extro info was for proof of my views, I find that 99% of people I talk to do not believe a word I just typed.

 

Hmm... No one in these sub sections has visited the gay/lesbian subsections then?

EDIT: Please do not use rude language on me if you do not know what just happened in my last 48 hours.

 

The things I speak of are... Frowned upon here yes? (gaybashing, thinking females are sexual objects, and any man wishing to be friends with women just wants to "get with them", and men making nasty comments about perfectly normal lesbian, gay, bisexual interaction. etc.)

Regardless I wish to try to make others realize that there are non-trolls out there... I have found 2 such people elsewhere, they were not easy to find.

 

Personal attacks of all kinds are against the rules here. Gay bashing especially is not tolerated. Some people get through the cracks from time to time, but overall our mods do a great job at keeping junk like that outa here.

 

Yes but even posting comments in lesbian, gay subsection would = my ban, regardless of even only wanting kinship/friendship correct? Forgive me if these questions are dumb but " Female Gays ONLY" is a fairly specific (for rules), yet generalized term (for reasons of a male desiring posting there).

But really... This place = safe / friend zone?

I have happened across other places claiming as such and my... postings were not accepted by trolls who apparently ran the place and enjoyed making fun of non heteros. I think it's gone now but still... A forum explicitly for trolling was NOT a fun place. but I don't know any strait man who will even go near any gays, or lesbians. They are GOOD cooks dammit!

EDIT: And that's a mod's job isn't it? So why would they do a crap job?

EDIT2: Wait... But I = Male and I am not a creeper, or a pig. My wording is sometimes really terribad, but I never intend to hurt the feelings of others. My current level of depression makes me realize that while I may be lonely enough right now that I would have an orgasm just from a hug from the opposite gender regardless of reason, I still have a reason or 2 to live and a friend who needs a person who they can talk to about, well... incestual feelings for her brother without me calling the cops (IMO no crime = no reason to report) And I'm not dying without a fight, nor will I utilize anything (including the liquid courage) to make problems "disappear" because they always come back. Even repressed memories do...

 

do go on...

 

You can freely post in the Gay and I think the Trans forums. The Lesbians forum is a little more restrictive because douchey men keep trying to ruin it, so they had to lay down some law.

But here's the thing. We don't just keep our Gays confined to their respective boards. Those forums are for talking about LGBTQr issues. The people that post there, post everywhere else on this forum. And if you're just looking to 'hang out', you're gonna be hanging out with us all.

So what's with putting everyone into a box? Ease up and go have some fun. It's just a forum.

 

I dislike anyone belittling others due to their own insecurities, and believe that anyone can have an opinion (no matter how dark or rude) as long as others don't hear rude things. Gaybashing someone for any reason is just... sad. If that is how a person spends their free time, then they need less free time. And I have a friend who is gay and he is an AMAZING cook. I cannot even be near raw meat... I dislike the memories I've tried to forget. Other topics are great, but unless anyone here has any kind of PTSD from war or anything involving violence/gore, then no more on that.

 

Hmm... I have no clue as to community member reputation. I now have more. But would posting a topic in lesbian subforum be inappropriate if I just desired kinship? Having only 1 friend, and family is a crap existence IMO and that is what I have. All of my old friends have been... "injured" in my destructive behavior. The price to pay for my knowledge of results of said things and the knowledge gained... is NOT worth doing again... every friend I've ever known in person is not even in the state or country anymore. And said single friend is in UK.

 

The lesbian forum is for talking about lesbian issues. I don't know how to make that clearer. It's not a meet and hang out forum.

If you want lesbian kinship, then hang out everywhere else on the forum. Like the lesbians do.

If you're so hung up on needing a lesbian or gay friend that you'll discount all of the other people here then that's really sad and such a loss for you. Because just like real life: gays, straights, queens and kings, other than what we do in the bedroom, we are all the same.

 

Once again my wording is terribad. I don't even know how to rephrase any of that... But that was not my intentional message...

EDIT: And I had no intention of filtering anyone/anything. I apologize if that is what it appears I was doing beyond the intent of no creeps, I suppose I should've said "I will not talk to creeps, but otherwise anyone with any gender and any sexuality would be a great friend/person to talk to" So if anyone would like to chat or even point me anywhere specific, please do. I'm very shy towards all people, and am open to all topics that I can think of (besides the list of what is not legal or allowed here, which covers my list of things not to talk about exactly). But please, if you to talk to me please intitiate said convo' your self or at least request that I initiate it with you. All my past attempts at such things have resulted in; question/ answer/ end. And while that is fun that's not exactly exciting. I'm open almost any time except between 10:00 PM and 8:00 AM, unless you have a huge time zone difference.And I do not want the next comment to sound like I think this is a dating site (I do not), but I am an open book and am willing to listen to any stories of woe. If you start telling me, then want to stop and/continue then that's your choice. If your stories are kinda huge I could use email. As odd as it may sound, I do enjoy helping others, I do not discriminate against anyone unless they are a creep/troll. I dump lists of known user names of trolls on many website admins. So please if you're gonna troll, just go to 4chan, that's where the creeps go and that's where they belong.

EDIT2: And isn't posting the same copy/paste topic on almost all first hand subforum "forks" considered trolling? Because I think it is and I am an anti troll. And on top of that I believe that every corner of the internet as well as the world should be a safe place for people that society brands as "Heretics" just for being different. But sadly almost no one on the planet seems to realize the importance of unity. I have understood it since as far back one of my oldest memories, which is also a massive scar I have. I was about 4 and made a racist comment to a friend (My best and closest friend I've ever had) and I never saw or even heard of him again. I was shunned for being "racist" when I didn't even have the tiniest idea of the concept of racism. Yet I was permanently branded a "Heretic" (someone elses words I overheard describing me at the time) and banned from al YMCA child centers forever. And nobody EVER even THOUGHT of answering the same question I repeated until my throat hut too much to talk "What did I do wrong?". I had to figure it out on my own. I A 4 year old child shunned for being racist garbage when he didn;t even know what racism was.
That my friends is something that I had intended to carry to my grave. But since I am safe from trolls here I might as well do it now. I still feel like shit for doing that to my best friend, and I cry every time I think about it. I didn't even want to make new friends for almost a year.

Sorry for dumping unimportant things here, I can move it elsewhere if desired?

 

i think that's more spamming or duplicate posting. which are generally even more annoying and less tolerated than trolling.


this is pretty much irrelevant, but YMCAs aren't really connected to each other. they may have told you that you were banned from all of them, but there's really no way to do that, even now that they're computerized.

 

I meant the child centers... not the entire YMCA, (but having gaurdians as DSHS admins kinda made them pay more attention) But I had also gotten banned from other places (Learning land 2 I think) for similar things that were frowned upon before that, and the state had (don't know if it's been expunged) a large file on me. But they had oddly good memories. The councilor, Jessica, she was great fun according to everyone else, (I do not think holding a child over the edge of a cliff at a campsite was amusing) she still knows who I am... It's creepy, and I have... odd thoughts about her, positive ones though.
The near death of another child in learning land was apperently not a good idea. But a foam (I thought it was foam) bookshelf seemed like he might learn his lesson (Don't comment on age of learning lessons please. I did not know any better) if he took a little bump to the head... I do not remember anything after the screaming... Nor do I want to anymore. I just feel so fucjed up!

 

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