How soon should I talk to her again?

Yesterday I met this girl on the bus and she seems pretty chill. We exchanged glaces here and there before getting on the bus. Anyway, back on the bus I overheard her talking on the phone about how she had gotten into a bad bicycle accident and that it had got her fired from her job. When she got off the phone, I just leaned over her and asked her in a friendly way that I heard she got in a bike accident. She replied to me in what seemed to be a sign of relief or kindness and started telling me all about it and how she had gotten fired from Target due to her injury. The bus was nearing her stop so we didn't talk for all that long. I mentioned to her that I have a job at a movie theater and all of a sudden she wanted to exchange numbers so she could get information regrading the job. I had also noticed her looking at me from time to time. She seemed to be happy that I had talked to her.

Getting off the bus, I ask her what her name was again and she had told me. I'm just curious as to how I should approach this. Should I not contact her for a few days and see how things go or if I do, would it give her the wrong signals? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

 

what kind of bicycle accident gets you fired from target? did she run over a customer?

only she knows how she wants you to handle it. i'd say just try whatever feels right to you and it will probably be wrong, but maybe you'll get lucky.

 

uhhh how long do you have?

 

Good question.

 

Do you want to sleep with her or do you want to help her get a job? If you want to fuck her, then call her... the sooner the better. If you want to get her a job, then call her whenever you feel like getting her hired.

 

I want to see if there is a spark somewhere there. Anyway, I just texted her and asked if she wanted to get lunch on Monday and she said she was down. So, we'll see how it goes. I'm not expecting anything or going to rush into anything.

 

Well, she replied back to me and said that I was a little too pushy and clingy. She said that the ultimate reason she gave me her number was to get the job information. So, should I just not talk to her anymore or wait a few weeks and get back to her? I asked her if we were cool and she said yes.

 

Did you give her the job information?

If yes, you're done. If no, call her and give it to her, and then you're done.

 

Yup, I gave it to her. Should I say, "Well, I've been thinking about it, and if you just wanted to the job information and not my friendship, then it's all good. Peace be with you." Or should I just let it go and delete her number?

 

just let it go. what purpose would that mini-speech serve, other than to let her know that she was right about you?

 

Good point.

 

Imagine if she knew you had a thread about it!

 

Well...it IS a small world. But not that small. Lol! But yeah, anything's possible lol

 

Don't contact her until she contacts you.........she is well aware you want to bed her as most guys do with girls...show here you are somewhat different.

 

No I don't mean she might find out. Your secrets save.. but what if she found out. She probably won't call you if you don't call her. I'd say be bullish.. on the assumption that u don't fear rejection.

 

Well, everything is cool now. We are just texting as friends now. So just going to take it slow and see how it goes.

 

you're probably wasting your time lol. I'm surprised she was that honest with you.

 

Yep, exactly. Let it go.

 

Never works, plus leads to restraining orders or getting your ass kicked by her friends/family, depending on what kind of girl it is.

Besides, making a pest of yourself is just plain pathetic. Ick.

 

That response is oddly perfect.
But intentions should always be noted in OP but they almost never are...