i've just been dumped!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by syd, Dec 22, 2004.

  1. syd

    syd Banned

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    My girlfriend just broke up with me, it was going so great, and now it's all come to an end. Nothing but the doors and moping for the next month. And it had to happen so close to christmas, this sucks.
     
  2. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    keep your chin up kid - it happens to all of us and the timing is never right. some day it will all make sense
     
  3. YankNBurn

    YankNBurn Owner

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    Timming was bad that was sure, sorry she could not have been so kind to hold off a few more days but perhaps she had her reasons. Maybe you'll find a Christmas gift and all she will be wearing is the bow!
     
  4. syd

    syd Banned

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    that would be good
     
  5. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    I'm really sorry. How long were you together?

    anyway, It's better now than for it to be dragged out and you get even more attached when she dumps you. She obviously doesn't care too much so it really is good to get it done and over with.

    If it makes you feel any better my mom is handing my dad divorce papers this weekend. although it's because he's only home a few times every few months, not because she's horrible- you're still not alone
     
  6. Booty_Man

    Booty_Man Banned

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    Don't worry about it! Just as long as you have cash, you will have girls. If you're broke then you are metaphorically fucked.
     
  7. Barefoot_Surfer

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    Money shouldn't have anything to do with relationships. I would never want a materialistic relationship. I would want the girl to love me for who I am not what I have. If you think that money is the be all and end all then you are living in a delusional world and you are heading for a life of misery. I have seen this so many times before. It only leads one way. People who think that money and relationships go hand in hand usually end up as a suicide statistic.

    Back to the subject I am sorry to hear about being dumped. It happens. Just remember you are not the only one in that situation. Just don't dwell on the relationship it will only drag you down. Just remember there are plenty more fish in the sea. Be positive and you will get another girl in no time at all. I know breaking up can be hard. The memories will stick with you. Just think of the things you can do now you are single. The world is now you oyster just live a little and let your hair down then everything will just slide into place. Being miserable would do you no favors. Who wants to know a miserable person.

    Matt
     
  8. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    sorry to hear that. It's hard to come to terms with a break up, but just give it some time and it will heal. I promise.
     
  9. iscreamchocolate

    iscreamchocolate Senior Member

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    awwww.. I have a great idea.. pretend that one of your hands is your girlfriend and she will be with you forever... and she will be swaying on your side while you walk and everything. and sometimes you can kiss your hand... awww
     
  10. syd

    syd Banned

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    hahahahahah, now thats funny.
    we lasted about six months, which is long for me, and yeah, it was mostly fun.
     
  11. lawngirl

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    well, at least new years is coming up soon, and when the ball drops you can find a new pair of lips to kiss.

    the timing does suck... but at the same time, at least you know you won't be smiling at someone who forces a smile back; you deserve genuine smiles. she won't be holding your hand because she feels obligated to "fake it." it's sad that your relationship had to come to an end, but it's better than being with someone who doesn't truly want to be with you. i don't know if that helps or not. but when you meet someone new, and you feel their smile vibrate through you, you'll sense the difference.
     
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