I am not sure if I really do like him or I just like the attention and want a bf??

So I was on this before talking bout this guy that I was seeing who had 3 kids and who was 8 years older than me. Of course I was a bit apprehensive about the whole thing however my parents now don't mind me seeing him!

What really annoyed me on this forum though was some people saying that if your afraid of telling your parents then your not mature enough! Thats a load of bull, you have to be happy with your parents opinion as well!! Ok Anyway...

So he asked me to be his gf (but to take things slow) about a week ago and I agreed coz I got butterflies when he asked me! Thats a good sign I suppose.

However ever since I have been questioning whether I do truely like him enough to be his gf or I just like the attention and maybe I might feel sorry for him.

I will admit I am into looks and I do prefer this other guys looks that I was kinda seeing before him and I find myself comparing him to the other guy a lot in my head! But the thing is he isn't bad looking at all; in fact I find my self saying a lot that he is cute and fairly attractive. However he is not that much taller than me, maybe 2 or 3 inches and that does bother a lil bit! Stupid I know!

We get on great together though, fortunately his personality is amazing!! However I think he is very infatuated with me and I know he would do for anything for me. I do fancy him though for defo but how much I don't know!!

I enjoy texting him, I smile sometimes when he says something funny or compliments me; I compliment him also!!

I enjoy when he comes over to see me, he makes me laugh a lot!!

I love that we have similar interests like sport and I can see myself enjoying attending matches with him in the future.

I do fancy him coz I love looking into his eyes either when we're talking or watever else lol! However sometimes when I look at him I wish he was better looking although saying that I do find him attractive in a way!! Also I do think about the future just say we are still together and he will be a lot older looking, that kinda scares me ha thats really stupid like!!

Maybe I am just into looks too much and forgetting that I do really like him!!

Or do I just like his attention and maybe just feeling sorry for him because he never got on with his ex and he always regretted being with her and he says I am the only girl he has ever really got on with??

Help please???

 

how much taller than you are you looking for in a guy?

this is just me, but i've really liked a couple of rather unattractive women in the past, and at the time i thought they were downright gorgeous.