it's been awhile

Been with the wife for over a decade now and she has never given me a blow job. Shit I miss them.
Some background info. We have discussed this and responses are either "you never know, I might surprise you one day" to "not gonna happen". I go down on her regularly (about once a week), and she always comes from it. I persist because I enjoy it and don't really believe in with holding something she enjoys so much. I realise it is something she really can't do and have given up. I don't try to force her or push her head down or anything. One I think it's a pretty cruel thing to do and two I doubt I'd enjoy it if she wasn't into it.
So I words this is part venting and part wondering if there were others out there with this problem and how they dealt with/overcome the problem.
Would really like a woman's perspective as well.
Cheating or a divorce isn't really an option as I do love her dearly

 

I don't get that. Ain't that a total bitch move, to hold out on your significant other? What's with women who won't suck their man's cock. What high horse did you come riding in on?

 

sit her down and ask her why she doesn't want to do it. find out what it is that makes it undesirable to her. she might find seeing a therapist to be beneficial, if she's open to it and actually wants to be able to do it for you but has some sort of mental block.

 

What's the difference between a job after 5 years and a wife after 5 years? The job still sucks!

 

I cant do it, he's too big, its like nails on a blackboard:teeth on skin :////

 

Maybe she is just over it.
It happens.

But don't start playing games yourself. You never know, one day ......

 

Conceivably you may be sexless for the rest of your life. The longer you stay in this situation, the more opportunities you pass. I would file for divorce.

 

get over it

 

^Looks like she found you strayamate. Now you're never gettin' any.

 

No she never actually gave him one

 

As long as you are the breadwinner in the household you have every right to say that. Otherwise, shut the hell up.

 

Have you ever been pegged Backdoor Man?

 

Ouch:rofl:

 

I love memes. And that good sir is one of the best. But no probably not the best place to search for one.

 

Whoops

 

What? He isn't sexless, he said his wife doesn't suck dick. Not everyone does. They are still having sex.

Perhaps she was abused and was forced to suck some older relative's dick. That would turn me off it for life.

 

Do you enjoy speculation as much as I enjoy speculums?

 

I'll ask again.. has Backdoor man ever been pegged??? since he's an expert at understanding why women love anal so much?