Will less blowjobs lead to more actual intercourse?

Such an awkward question.

Anyways, me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months, and I could count the number of times we've actually had sex one one hand. I wouldn't even need all 5 fingers.

We'll get intimate almost every time we see each other, but it HARDLY EVER leads to actual sex.

The thing is, when we're in the moment, I love giving him blowjobs. I just love how much he loves it.
But I feel like I give them so often now that it's kind of the expected end to our nights together.

And that's not okay.

I want to have sex, dammit.

If I stop giving him so many blowjobs, do you think it would lead to sex more often?

 

the trick is , expose your vagina more. like take all your clothes off and then suck on the penis. its easier to get it inside the vagina that way..

 

Try and use the blow job as foreplay. I would be very surprised if your bf turned down full sex when you have given him that kind of attention. The other thing that some guys forget is that women need to be pleasured too. Is he seeing to your needs at all or is he being terribly selfish?

 

I really do hope he is returning the favour! If he is not maybe you should reconsider being so generous to him. Maybe tell him you have no problem taking care of his needs, but you also have needs to be fullfilled. You could always blow him first and then he could eat you untill he can get hard again for the next round.

 

Come up after a few minutes and straddle him. That should do the trick.

 

I think you need to learn to communicate with him better about your wants.

Just cutting the blowjobs could lead him to think something else is wrong; that he tastes funny, or you don't really like doing it, or that you're losing interest. Plus; negative reinforcement isn't a very nice behavior in relationships and isn't a good habit to get into.

You should try getting physical in different ways. Like Meliai said, straddling; like Lady-Lover said, a short blow and then ask to be fucked, or like orison said, get your vagina more involved.

You can also move his hand to your vagina, tell him that you want to feel him inside you, or rub up against him.

Try a little bit of everything; and if all else fails; talk to him. It's important to be able to talk about discomforts in relationships.

 

These two are the best advice here. Tell him want you want. Either before you start sucking his dick or during. While you're going down on him, trying looking him in the eyes and tell him want you want. This can be a major turn on and can lead to sex.

 

mwhaaa... :2thumbsup:

 

why not suck his dick after you've had sex, best of both worlds. Now thats a great way to end the night !

 

This

 

If you suck a guy too long he reaches a point where the sex isn't going to last long however if you blow him and then start again you should get a nice long session. But he is being selfish just a little in not catering for your coital needs.

 

just fucking tell him, jesus christ. I don't understand 90% of you people. "Yo, I wanna have sex too." Done.