I have Peyronie's and it has killed my already screwed up sex life , this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me , I was never the most well endowed man but this has made it embarrassing for me to look at, I have been to the DR and I have been using a pump while waiting to get a series of injections that Might help, I am it in a horrible marriage , we dont have sex , I do not desire her at all or she me the rest is to long a story , I am just at my wits end , I want need some female contact , I am really wanting to be able to be with a woman that I cant wait to see and hug and hold and fawn over , I need this before I go completely out of my mind , my emotions are frozen I am trapped with a woman I cant stand and it comes down to this , we both used drugs at one time , we met in the rooms of recovery , BLAH , BLAH and BLAH to present time , we have a wonderfull son who is 11 , I am so afraid of trying to divorce her in that she might be awarded custody of our son and truth be told I'm no angel but I dont resent my son and I dont depend on him to make me happy or guilt him all the time or any other number of things , I guess I am venting to the point of not making much sense, just dont know where to turn or what the right 1st move is and still there's the Peyronies, I feel like I am lost forever
Take a deep breath...exhale...Now, think. What advice would you give to a good friend who came to you with these problems?
Sounds to me like you need to get out of that relationship. It is not doing you any good whatsoever. You getting yourself into a better place will also improve your relationship with your son.
Yes, and "staying married for the kids" isn't always a valid reason. it hurts at first, but if it's best for you, then you need to do it. It will be better for your son as well... Because kids pick up on the loveless marriage things too you know... And well, don't want them to learn to accept that now do you?
Victory, I feel you pain. I have Peyronie's too. I'm also in a relationship (married) in which sex is not on the menu. On that rare occasion when my wife and I do have sex, it's difficult for me to become erect, because there just isn't enough blood flow down there, and when I do manage to get hard, it's only semi-hard. My glans has very little sensitivity now, so when I do have sex, there's no guarantee I will have an orgasm. I look like a freak, and because of my deformity, the only way I can have intercourse is doggy style. I can't get in any other way. And on top of that, Sex is now a painful experience instead of a pleasurable one.I understand how frustrated you are. I wish I could help you somehow. I really do. What's funny is that I also have Meniere's disease, and I often think that if I had the choice to recover full use of my penis or have my hearing back, I almost always choose having my penis restored to it's old normal self.
Victory, YOu may want to read this before you do any more pumping. Be careful. http://peyronies-disease-help.com/ved-vacuum-pump-peyronies-disease-treatment/
Victory817 and Zebb - I'm so sorry to hear your predicament! Peyronie's Disease (curvature of the penis) isn’t a nice condition to have and with 1 in 100 men suffering from this problem it’s surprising there isn’t more conversation on this forum about it! If you’ve not already realised it there are a number of solutions to curing – yes you read that correctly – Peyronie’s Disease! The first and most obvious is surgery; this is a painful and invasive procedure (not to mention exceptionally expensive) but if you want an instant solution to the problem, then this is it. I personally would never go down this route (due to the above stated reasons) and would rather opt for a pain free option. You might have come across penis enlargement devices in the past, however there are 2 specific devices that are medically approved for curing Peyronie's Disease. • SizeGenetics • X4 Labs (which have a Peyronie's Disease specific model and at time of writing they have a Christmas holiday promotion on!) We’ve done full reviews of both these devices over on our site and both are a good choice so it’ll literally be a case of personal preference and of course, cost (however pricing pales in comparison to having surgery). If you do decide to go with a device (such as SizeGenetics or X4) bear in mind that you won’t get instant results, we’re talking a good couple months of prolonged usage however if your serious and dedicated there is most definitely a light at the end of the proverbial tunnel that can help resolve your issues of Peyronie's Disease. There are a few penis pumps out there to ‘claim’ to reduce the effects of Peyronie's Disease however I’m rather sceptical on the effectiveness of these and would definitely go for either X4 Labs or SizeGenetics simple due to these devices having been proven to work and cure the condition.
