:& hey guys, i just got invited to a new years party by this fantastic girl and im gonna go. i just need help to impress her. i wanna sort of chat her up in a subtle way, any tips on how to make her sorta notice me? thanks y'all xxxxxxx
Well, just relax, and talk to her, find out what she likes, etc. It depends on what you want from the situation, what she wants from the situation - your personality, her personality - basically every variable there is between two people. Any advice given here will just be generalisation - you are the best judge of the situation - I give simple advice: relax, be yourself.
Be yourself, Kashmir, let the girl see the real Kashmir. Dote on her, let her know you're interested in her by smiling every time she looks at you and making her feel comfortable with you. And if you get nervous remember this: if she responds positively, you're in for something good. If she doesn't respond, it was never meant to be and the gods are saying that there're many more fish in the pond.
I agree, be yourself. If you're not yourself, you're only cheating yourself. You want her to be impressed with you, not with somebody else you are trying to be. Just be yourself, relax, and be interested in her. Listen as much as you talk, you can comment on something she said earlier to show her you're interested and listening. Good luck and have fun!
