"Every man wants a threesome, if they say they don't, they are lying"

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Jill Hazes, Dec 21, 2011.

  1. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    I'd say many men think a threesome would be great.
    But I know men who fantasize about boinking interspiritualdimension mermaids.

    Reality? The new toy gets a lot of attention, and the other partner gets a tad jealous.
    I walked out, as the toy, because the other woman was so pressured to enjoy.

    I had a lover who wanted to see me with another man. He had some experience with a m-f couple, and probably could handle it, but I d have to select the guy, and I need connection....that sets up jealousy, or at least competitiveness.
     
  2. bandit_ky

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    i would say that i think about it alot, but me and the wife seem to be too picky and cant come up with a woman that suits both of us at the same time
     
  3. edog187

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    true story
     
  4. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I've had the fantasy for several years of having a threesome but it's only a fantasy.
    Some of us are more adventourous than others & would have one if given the chance to. Fantasies are free but some do come get their's becoming real.
     
  5. smoothieUK

    smoothieUK Member

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    Stuff 3somes 4somes are much better, i can fuck one girl and watch the other 2 make out.....
     
  6. spirow

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    I tried a MFF once (I "borrowed" my best friends GF...), but fucking two horny girls was almost to much at one time, they really stretched me thin for awhile there.... It turned out to be more like a nightmare than a pleasure to give them both enough cock, so when my friend stepped in and took over i was acctually happy about it... he he

    After that I have had a lot of threesomes with my friend and my wife and that suits me a lot better than two girls and me...

    To day I rather have my wife fucking another man alone then partisipating in it... So much better to fuck her after he is done with her... ;)
     
  7. odonII

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    It sounds it. No thanks.
     
  8. Ivory62

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    Leave my trinocular seven-limbed fish girls out of this.
     
  9. Amethyst_Bliss

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    Even if it's a turn on, I'm sure there are some men that would prefer one-on-one sex. I've known men that don't want anyone else touching their women. I've known a man that has had three-somes, but he says "At the end of the day, the best sex is with that one woman you care about."

    I don't think it's fair to say all men are the same, just like women aren't the same. There are some men out there with low sex drives.
     
  10. FrostByte

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    Yup, I agree totally. I would much prefer a MMF than a MFF. Although we haven't tired a threesome yet, when we do it will be with another guy.
     
  11. Sam101

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    If it's a threesome, then hell yes I'd do it.. Did it once, and yes, the first time is awkward as hell, but once everyone gets in the swing of things, can be awesome!

    oh, and definitely has to be me and two chicks, I don't like the idea of another sausage getting thrown into the mix :/
     
  12. xxaru

    xxaru Guru of Porn

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    In my experience 3 somes don't really work well unless everyone is equally into each other. Otherwise you end up with each partner sort of waiting for their turn with the other. I've had a couple MFF threesomes, and I have no interest in doing another one unless both girls want each other as much as I want them (and they want me ;) ).

    I've never done MMF, and have no real interest in that either.
     
  13. I'm another male who can attest that it's not a part of every male's fantasy. I wouldn't want to be deluded into thinking I was someone spectacular because I'd been in a threesome, and would much prefer a more intimate relationship with just one girl.

    Sex isn't just sex. Our actions do determine how we feel about ourselves, and some men just wouldn't feel comfortable doing this. We shouldn't all be gauged by anyone's standards. I, myself, prefer a less carefree lifestyle. I have too many things to take seriously to just suddenly engage myself in something so uncertain. It can be frustrating when people question your masculinity and sexual orientation simply because you don't engage in the same exploits as someone else.

    You can read more about me at my blog.
     
  14. east_melbourne

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    I have had a couple of threesomes with my wife and another woman. I would go for it again, but will let her decide when it will happen. Each time all three were very happy about it afterwards.

    It is pretty nervous the first time but it is great. The women were not into each other so it turned out to be me pleasuring them, and they together pleasuring me.

    It is a great experience, but nothing beats making love with your partner that you love without others involved.
     
  15. benzocoop

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    I've thought about it, thought I was really interested and ready for it, but the more I've looked into it, it's become less appealing. In general, people are very picky and want something immediate, hardly even getting to know each other. If I were gonna do this, as a single guy now, ideally it would be with a couple who wants to get to know me. We'd be friends, and thus really be able to enjoy the experience. But no, I don't want a random hookup with a couple who presumably only wants me for sex. I'd want something more genuine.
     
  16. enhancer13

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    Ourselves when we are looking for another single to join us we are only looking for someone for random sex and that is it! We do not want to have someone who wants more out of it, because we don't. If it is a couple we are hooking up with we are much more interested in more then just sex and are game for an on going friendship. Everyone does thing differently though so I am sure you could find a couple that wants more out of it.
     
  17. derkoob

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    Hmm, sounds interesting, like his cum still in her pussy right ? I could see that being very hot / pleasurable!
     
  18. SexyTX_couple

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    I know my fiancé and I would love to do a threesome with either another guy or girl. We just don't know where to find someone that's willing.
     
  19. xyzniloc

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    Back in college I had a MFF threesome and it was fun and I was glad to check it off the life list, but to be honest it wasn't the hottest sex. Yeah I was little unsure about the turn taking. Fortunately they were both bi and had been together before so it was fun to watch them too.

    Lately I've fantasized about MFM threesome and get turned on watching that kind of porn but I not sure I could actually do it with the woman I love and feel good about it later.
     
  20. gina899

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    I think more guys fantasize about threesomes than women do. I never conducted a poll - scientific or otherwise, though, so maybe that's not really true. I've been in both FMF and MFM threesomes, but not too many of either and none for a few years now. Lot's of what's been said is true - it can be a little awkward. It works best, I think, when all the parties really know and like each other but aren't really too emotionally involved with each other. That way it seems to balance between awkwardness and jealousy. Again, just my two cents.

    But threesomes CAN be spectacular. For me, MFM is better - being the absolute center of attention of two horny guys CAN be beyond cool! But it REALLY depends on who they are.
     

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