Spit Or Swallow...Whats The Deal?

A conversation with the hubby today got me to wondering....Why does it matter whether a girl spits or swallows when giving her man oral?
I have heard some guys say that they think its sexy when a girl swallows and a few even say that they will not date a girl that refuses swallow....
At the point that the girl has a decision to make whether she wants to ingest her man's cum or refuse the extra shot of protein and spit it out...Hasnt the guy already gotten his rocks off? Does it really matter at that point what she does with it? Does it lessen the experience if she chooses to spit instead of swallow?
GUYS LET ME KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS AND REASONS!!!

 

I think it's a power trip for most guys. Personally, I do think it's sexy if she does it every once and a while, but it's no big deal if she doesn't.

 

Think of it as reverse foreplay (postplay if you will) I find it much hotter when a girl swallows, it gives me a sense that she is focused and committed to the bj. Also when cumming there is a residual euphoria that slowly goes away over several minutes after the immeadiate orgasm so going along with the reverse foreplay idea, I feel more heightened euphoria persisting when a woman swallows.

 

I have to say more guys than not seem to prefer to have it swallowed in my experience. A few that I've asked about it say that it feels better to have it somewhere warm and wet right till the end, or some say it's a turn on to have a girl go all the way with it and swallow it down.

 

I'd agree - but it's totally up to her or him; with guys if they have already orgasmed sometimes the urge to swallow goes. Don't kno if it can be like that for women but I doubt it.

Simon :sunny:

 

Well for me I can't really say it's an 'urge' to swallow, but more of a desire to please the guy and make him enjoy it as much as possible.

 

i think they just want to see if you'll actually do it.

 

I was never put off by spitting, but do enjoy if she swallows.
My wife has pretty much always swallowed, except when I used to smoke cigarettes. Actually when I was up to almost two packs a day she stopped giving me head at all because it tasted so nasty.
Sure was good incentive to quit. Haven't had a cig in over 8 years now, put have enjoyed a lot of BJ's in that time
So a girl may have good reason to spit, your spunk may taste like junk.

I do get a psycho/emotional additional "rush" when she swallows, but it not required for me to enjoy a good blowjob. .

 

Its really discouraging if my lover's reaction to my semen is "yuck". Even if the word isn't said, the screwed up face and a rush to get it out of her mouth conveys the same feeling.

If she doesn't like swallowing, its much better to let me know before hand. I'll forgo cumming in her mouth. She might get semen all in her hair, but I promise I won't cum in her mouth. (Or you can make other arrangements with your lover to suit the two of you.)

Its not so much that I want her to like the taste of my semen, its the rejection at that moment.

Let me make an analogy. Have you ever had a lover who performed cunnilingus to (your) orgasm and as soon as you stopped trembling, he raises his head and said "tastes nasty"?

It's not that swallowing is hot, its that (at that moment) spitting feels like a rejection.

 

That's a good way of describing it. It would certainly put a damper on things if I knew that a guy didn't enjoy going down on me.
Besides, even if it's not your favorite thing to taste, the look on a guys face after you've swallowed is priceless and well worth it.

 

I've never been with anyone that hasn't swallowed so I don't know. Spitting doesn't make sense if its already in your mouth

 

You know....I never thought of it that way....makes perfect sense! Thank you

 

i'm going to tell this to everyone i know who chews tobacco.

 

LMAO too funny! :rofl:

 

My wife also swallows. It is great, but if she would not swallow I would not make a point of it.

A blowjob should be awesome even if the girl does not swallow.

 

Some guys get off from having a girl swallow. Personally, I get off more on drowning a girl in cum. She can swallow it after she gets it off her face and body :2thumbsup:

 

For me, it is not the act of spitting or swallowing that matters.
I just hate when a woman knows your about to cum and pulls it out of her mouth and strokes it with only her hands. I had a lot of girlfriends in high school that did this and it was a total let down.

I have dated a few women that swallowed, but most did not, but as long as they would let me cum while I was in their mouth, it was all good.:sunny:
Most that did not swallow, just let it drool out as they kept going.

I am guessing it is this way for a lot of men, whether you spit or swallow is not important, just finish it in your mouth.:2thumbsup:

 

It's a turn on if she swallows.

 

My personal preference with Vaginal sex is to ejaculate whilst still penetrated as deep as possible, but due to the side effect of epilepsy meds, once I've been going for a while I usually need to withdraw, masturbate to the brink, and then re-penetrate in order to experience the climax. However, one of my former girlfriends would usually insist on my ejaculating in her mouth so that she could swallow the semen - something I always considered a waste of a good orgasm, to be honest.

 

Well, first I prefer to avoid it being in my mouth...just the texture gets to me,,,,but if it's already in there then there is no point of spitting it out. Then it's in your mouth longer anyway. What's 3 calories gonna do to a lady's figure??