So I've slept with over 100 people...

Haha!

My last relationship was with a guy who had slept with 200+ women and in some ways he was ideal. No jealousy, or trust issues. We both understood that we had pasts and were interested in a monogamous future so that was fine. He actually high fived me when we had the number swapping conversation.

I've never wanted to outright lie about my numbers but I've told the literal truth to very few men because a lot of them can't handle it. I generally just give diplomatic reasons why its not important and that generally shuts the "what's your number" conversations down. You can't hide your past though and even if they never get specific numbers there's always something that makes them realize that you're no virgin and that comes with a whole world of problems sometimes.

I do know that there are men who genuinely wouldn't care (and even high five) and its generally easy to peg the jealous types pretty soon into things.

I never care, nor do I ask about a man's sexual relationships except in relation to health topics. I would actually rather a man who's been with the same amount of women as I have men. I always think, well if he could have all those women and what he wants is me, that's pretty impressive.

That's what I've always told guys, "they're not here right now, you are".

 

See?
You're sensible,thoughtful,intelligent,and go for what you want,not what's 'available'.

Rock on,Hon-one day you'll write a book that will blow "50 Shades" into the weeds!

 

That`s exactly what I`m talking about. I`m not interested in a monogamous future.

Everybody gets to have their fun with you, and I`m stuck with monogamy? What a nightmare!

Girls like you never sow their wild oats with me, and I`m trying to understand what it is. I have some clues, but I`d love to get an honest answer from a 100+ woman why they only go for vanilla guys.

They don`t usually give it to me straight.

 

lol well I guess the point of what I was saying was not the monogamy thing, it was the most men never know my number thing. Unless you've asked and got an honest answer from all those chicks then you probably did bang some like me.

Also, it's not like I woke up one morning and was like "gee I'm not gonna screw anyone anymore, I want a relationship". I like what I like and I don't have a problem saying I'm into someone when I am, and that doesn't happen very often. I used that guy as an example because he is the only one I have really. I have no idea of the numbers of every dude I slept with or was in a relationship with. We just happened to want more from each other.

I'm not even sure what you mean by vanilla guys lol. All I can say to that is that my tastes in men is all over the place. I get the implications of the word vanilla so may I suggest that there's just more of them?

If you're just tagging and releasing then I don't think the numbers should matter much. To me the only time I think it would be beneficial to find a guy who had slept with as many people as I had would be in a relationship type situation because that's the only time things like that really matter.

 

Hmmmm. The clues are there. But you are believing what you want to believe. Its text over the internet, so your mind has wandered to think of her in a way thats more exciting to you, like a tigress. But you have something more of a hopeless romantic on your hands.....

Or to put it another way, if you were to interact with her in real life, how would your opinion change? And if you were able to get all these 120 or so guys to be in the same room at once, it would be pretty obvious what they all have in common

And by the same token, only paying attention to what one wants to pay attention to. Dont assume she knows the answer to what they may all have in common

 

That would make for one hell of a reunion party

 

If you are enjoying the way you live your life and not hurting others by living this way then all the power to you! Your mind and body and you should do what you want to with them. Don't worry about others say, because honestly a lot of them are just jealous, because they have such dull conservative lives they live. Woman have just as much of a right to be sexually free as men and not be judged harshly if they are.

 

I think you are a normal, sexually active, free adult! Do what you are doing and do not question yourself! Have fun while making smart decisions, and you will have a fulfilling life!

 

I've slept with at least 300.....

 

And this gains you-all what?

 

How many of them were women?

 

None of them were women actually. Just noticed that I said people instead of men lol. Never been with a woman.

 

Ooh,please miss,please miss,over here miss-I have!

I fell off twice and at one point I was facing the wrong way,but alla same,I have miss!

 

I am. I also really like sex. No one is that black and white. That was the whole purpose of my original question. As a woman people just find it impossible that you can be loving and very sexual and capable of feeling and fucking or fucking without feeling. If I sleep around I'm screwed up, and if I want relationships im just a typical chick. I can want all or part of nothing from any man at any given time and I like it that way.

As far as I can tell the only thing most of them have in common is me, but you're probably right. I do have very obvious tastes in looks but other than that most of them seemed very different to me.

I'd love to see that gathering of my formers. I just picture it being like the Price is Right and some announcer saying "Come on down!" and them taking turns answering trivia questions about me. "Is the tattoo on her thigh on the right or left leg??"

P.S. Vanilla Gorilla? Dlisted perhaps?

 

posters and viewers still keeping up........74 & 75

Simon :sunny:

Ps. we have 300 - do I hear any advance on that?

 

Well at least that! Do you usually seduce or get seduced?

 

Yep, she would lose me with the holding off on sex thing, for sure. But, to be honest, she had already lost me with her first post. I`m not as gullible about 100+ chicks anymore.

Women who fuck the same kind of guy over and over are a turn off. The 100+ doesn`t really count to me then. Recently there were 3 other female posters who bragged about being 100+, but when I talked to them, it was easy to figure out they only fuck a specific type. Much too vanilla for my taste. Why not just get married then??

The chicks who`ll also fuck whomever comes up to them but never take the initiative are also a turn off, regardless of whether they`re in the tripe digits or not. And OP sounds like a let-them-come-to-me sort of 100+.

Ew. No.

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Originally Posted by thedangeroustype
Also, if I have an emotional attraction to someone, I tend to hold off on the sex for a bit. I'm very patient with potential life mates so I behave differently in those situations.

 

can't be right. i've looked at this thread 2 or 3 times and never replied. unless it just measures unique viewers and not actual views.

 

I am not an expert on the subject, since I have only ever been with my wife since we were 15 years old, but I would have to say that if you're happy with your life, not hurting anyone else, and don't have something in your past that could have caused a problem, then why worry about it?

It's your life, live it how you want. I know a few people who don't ever develop any serious relationships as they prefer a single life. I never asked how many partners they had, but I did notice quite a few.

Maybe you just have not found the right person yet. I also noticed that people who find partners in clubs and the like generally do not have long lasting relationships.

Just my opinion.

 

No, a slut's a chick who's slept with 5 people in the last week.