Ruff or Gental??

My dream is I guess that I wish he would come up behind me and jerk me around and rip my clothes off pick me up and push me against the wall. then pin my arms behind me and start to screw my brains out. I want to feel helpless and under all of his control. It just turns me on to think about it that way????

 

Damn! You guys should make a movie! I'd like to see you guys in action Lol;-)

 

have you told him that?

 

Bondage hifilady!

Simon :sunny:

 

Ruff!!!! I don't think I would be aware gentle was happening

 

I prefer it more gentle...but I like it rough sometimes. Definitely not rough every time, then I end up feeling like nothing more than a toy.

 

nothing wrong with taking a woman every once and a while. I know my wife loves it just not all the time

 

OK. 3 to 1 in favour of rough. Not a valid sample, but disappointing nevertheless to those of us in favour of ‘Gentle’, especially those who have taken on board feminist messages about ‘women treated as dehumanised sex objects’.

 

Surely doing it as the woman wants (whether that's rough, gentle or dressed in ostrich feathers while singing Flight of the Valkyries) is the epitome of taking the feminist message on board? Or are you suggesting that women who like it rough can't be feminists?

 

Sorry, no, I don't mean to imply that. In fact, I wouldn't want to make any assumptions about women's needs at all. It's just that I feel there has been a feminist lobby since the 60s which insists that women are not treated as 'sex objects' and a few notable cases of men who have got into trouble by assuming that 'no' doesn't mean 'no'. I agree with your principle of 'doing it as the woman wants'. My difficulty is understanding what it is that women want and that's why I would ask them on this forum.

 

Depends on the woman I'm with. I've had both.

 

I love it rough!! I love getting pounded so hard that I scream out of control because it feels so good! My boyfriend has a huge hard cock and my pussy is really tight...when I have all that meat inside me it's amazing

 

Really?? do explain!!

 

Both ways work for me. Although being a guy, rough means a much more strenuous workout for me.

 

I want it rough! I'm always the agressor. I want to be tied up and spanked.clamps on my balls and a girl doing me with a well lubed strap on.

 

Gentle & a bit of the odd squeeze here & there. But to rip all the clothing off a woman would be hot - just as long as she didn't like them that much in the first place or she wasn't concerned one way or the other.
Gives her a good reason to go shopping again lol