I will start off by stating that i have genital herpes. I have only had one outbreak. I went out with some friends last night and got way too drunk and ended up in bed with someone i know. i was in the process of trying to get back with the person i recently broke up with and this will certainly ruin that. if i don't tell her she will eventually find out anyway. on top of that how do i tell the person i slept with about my medical condition? ugh, this is not good.
I think that you can only transmit the virus during or three days prior to an outbreak (I make no guarantee of accurate medical advice) it may not be necessary to tell ask a doctor? still, unplanned sexual encounters are probably a bad idea for someone who has a chronic std
i don't even remember the sex. i wasn't even sure if we did anything until she said something to me about it.
yeah I guess that is what some of you men do Blame someone else instead of taking the blame. You need to be honest with the person that is what is best and they want think bad of you if you lie and blame them it can go in so many different ways even the bad bad ways is she is really bothered by it so own up to it and be honest don't be a chicken shit and take the easy way out.
my post was pretty clearly a joke... you should head over to the pharmaceuticals forum and borrow a couple valium.
well sorry if I hit you the wrong way I just know that a lot of men would do that and it can really hurt a female in so many different ways. some things you joke about and some things you dont
Hifi has a point too, eggsprog. Some dickheads will take any advice that leads to the easiest way out, Think thats all she is tryin to say!
Tell her. Send her a text, or a note, this doesn't have to be done a certain way, just get her the information somehow. You could even be anonymous with a note in her mailbox, but then you run the risk of her thinking it is a joke. Hopefully she will have learned a valuable lesson about one night stands, without actually catching your herpes.
from what i understand there is only a small chance anything will happen to her. i still don't know if we used a condom yet. i don't want to freak her out unnecessarily but if something were to happen i wouldn't want to be the asshole who didn't say anything.
why do you blame men as being the only sex that takes the easy way out. Women do this allllll the time too. the worst and the best is in all of us.
