the slow deep complete inhalation down it the abdomen and slow steady exhalation being sure to get all the air out of the lungs and then repeat. Complete filling and emptying of the lungs.
Thanks. Understood. Not sure how you go about 'slow and steady' while having a screaming orgasm, hahaha.
It's a real turn on when my bf and I are having sex and he's grunting and groaning. It's telling me how good it feels and that he's really enjoying himself. I especially like how he sounds when he cums. Like it's such a huge relief to finally explode. hehe
I believe that hearing some noises from my partner is good feedback. I've been with some women who are silent as a fish in a tank and the only evidence I have from her orgasm is increased moisture after the fact. I'm not saying that you need to replicate the scene from "When Harry met Sally" with Meg Ryan in the restaurant (which was a very hot scene btw). I'm just saying that when I hear her cum because she's breathing heavily and/or moaning some to let me know when she's gone over the edge, it's a major turn on for me. As stated by others, it makes it hard for me to hold out much longer when I hear her orgasm. I love cumming together, usually preceded (by a few seconds) by her O, but basically simultaneously, at least during intercourse. In my mind, the woman should always cum first. If I cum first without her having the pleasure of oral or clitoral orgasm(s), I feel so selfish. In addition, it builds my self-esteem when I know I made her cum, as I imagine it builds hers when she knows she pleased me, too.
I love it when my wife moans.. But she is so self conscious she doesn't like to moan lest other people hear lol.. So when we were at the beach hotel in that private cabana she let loose like no tomorrow! Oh that was some sweet times!
Anoxia/anoxic sex. It's relatively well known, and some kinksters even semi-strangle themselves (rope, belt, collar etc) at the point of orgasm to heighten the anoxic effect. That can be dangerous, for obvious reasons.
Yeah choking during sex, is a iffy issue for me. Because of the risk of harmfully hurting your partner. And I have no intention on hurting anybody I'm intimate with. I wouldn't want to lose them.
Totally agree here. I think it's fun to get a little aggressive and put a light hand at the girl's throat in the moment of passion..but I would never actually squeeze or put her in danger...too far for me
I love it when the man makes a sound it really turns me on more and it makes me hit multiable climaxes!
is is the low like grunting noises, or like a male scream, or like an "ohhhhh yeah" that does it for you? Just curious, because I'm not that noisy as a guy, and you don't normally see men being the noisy one of the pair.... Wife doesn't seem to care one way or the other.... :afro:
My ex used to moan and grunt a lot. Get off me she'd moan Ouch she would grunt Have you finished yet....I'm not in the mood....It's too hot/cold/dark/light/early/late.....all common moans. No was probably the most common grunt.
LOL.... Touche... *sigh... Although meant to be funny, it probably hits closer to home than most people would like!!! Oh well, live and learn, and then go to the shower to tweak one out.... :afro:
I can't tell you how much it gets me going. I'm polyarmorous so hearing multiple men and women moaning and grunting turns me on like nothing else can.