Who instigates the most sex and who do you think should??

In my relationship I have to do most of the Instigating of any type of sexual relationship if you will. What does anyone think about that??

 

I know your BF/ hubby loves you more than anything in this world. A guy still love to have sex, but in his mid 30s his sexual prime is tapering off! depending on YOUR age, you are coming into YOUR sexual prime. Once a guy is into it, he's all for it!!!!!!

 

But it makes the lady in any relationship feel as if she is not desirable?

 

I 'm sure he finds you VERY desireable! When you ARE having sex, does he enjoy it!?

 

Sometimes I can tell when he does and other not so sure!!

 

I'm guessing he's older. He may not initiate it, but I can gaurantee he loves it!!! Do you guys do anything to spice it up!?

 

Yes I have got him into using toys also and we love going to the toy shop but I really need to have him start instigating it cause I feel like I am bothering him when I have to ask all the time I mean we have only been together almost 2 yrs and when we first got together I never instigated it we were like bunnys and I miss that......

 

He doesn't mind you are on a forum talkin about this with total strangers!? It would turn me on if my Mrs did that! Does he work long hours!?

 

Not really I mean it is not like I want it the sec he comes home. I do have his super waiting on him when he walks in and all. But I still like to have it more than 1 every 2 weeks and that is on good weeks. He does not mind me talking to other people about it I hope I am a very open person once you get me starter.

 

That may be the old age setting in. He loves you I am sure! Maybe he needs to go away for a while, like a long business trip, and he will realize what he DOESN'T have! You sound really fun!! I like your other posts too! It's kinda hot that your hubbys cool with you posting on here!

 

I know we have the trust thing really rocking in our relationship. plus I am really new at a lot of this and this is away for me to find things out. yes he is right now on a very long trip and it is to long but the toys he got me helps a little.

 

Long trip? I know he will want you everyday, few times when he gets home!!! Have him check out what you been writing here! Lol

 

I am sure he is now anyways lol I have already warned him that for the first week he better be very energetic cause I am gonna be on him like white on rice!!!!!

 

Who instigates sex the most, is someone who has a bigger sex drive than their partner or the partner prefers to be seduced willingly /dominated instead.

 

sounds nice for him.


i masturbate to internet porn. what do you think of that!?