All I want is some discipline! Why wont he give me that?

Okay, how the f*** do I get my bf to spank me?
I broke up w him cuz I thought he was really lame n I didnt dare to tell him abt the spanking thingy. Then I get together with him on one condition, spank me.
I try to be bad he doesnt say a thing.
I swear he wont do anything.
*sighs* Idk what to do, feels like I've tried EVERYTHING!
Plz help.

 

1 Get a BIG sheet of paper

2 Write on it in 3" high letters SPANK ME HARD AND I WILL FUCK YOU LIKE A PORNSTAR ON OVERTIME

3 Hang it up in front of him

4 Hit him in the head with a 3 iron until he notices.

Men are stupid. We don't take hints at all well. Be really really blunt.

5 If that doesn't work, pm me

 

I wouldn't spank a cutter either.

 

Ivory62: Lol, I'll try that this weekend. xD
Aerianne: I only started cutting cuz my brother died, trying to stop but it aint easy you know.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bO2BIf12xnQ"]KING CRIMSON - DISCIPLINE - YouTube

 

Get some help of some kind. You think slicing yourself up and desiring to get beaten is OK?

 

Just tell him to do it, be blunt about it.Men seem to like that kinda thing anyways.

 

*BTW*On the cutting thing I would not do that. I know what it is like to have someone die that you are close to. Talk to someone about it or something, cutting yourself is not the answer it will not solve anything or stop the pain you have. It will only leave you scared.

 

Because you aren't really being bad. That's just your own delusion. You want to feel like you're being bad because you're self-obsessed.

 

...because you are being punished

 

desire to be spanked = pretty tame, not a big deal


cutting= usually a sign of significant past trauma warranting therapy

 

yeah, I missed the cutting thing. I'd be looking for some professional assistance if, at the age of 17, you're cutting.

I don't judge, and nor do I criticise. But I am concerned for your welfare. Being spanked is ok. Cutting is a different issue.

Please seek some aid.

 

Someone who cuts is emotionally unstable.

BDSM is best undertaken by those who are mature, and emotionally/mentally stable.

 

yeah... talked w a therapist abt the cutting shit, she only made things worse. Besides havent cutted in a month so I feel damn proud abt that.

Anyways back to the topic, what if I tell him to do spank me but he wont?

I dont wanna leave him again. But if he wont give me what I want then he wont get what he wants either.

 

hi..please don't cut yourself...and if your bf won't give you what you want..find one that will...will give you what you want..there are a lot of guys out there that will listen to their woman and give her what she wants in bed....trust me...I am one of them...love yourself..please???

 

No one wants a girl like me. This bf I'm having now is my first ever! If I could have someone else I'd dump this guy straight away.

 

I suggest not going from one to the next like stepping stones in a creek. Put some time in for YOU. To get ones self independant is one of the most important acts a woman can undertake. There are some wise women in here--talk to them. Find yourself.

 

Lol, I'm just wondering... Is there like a depressing forum on this site, cuz I feel like I'm posting way too much depressing shit where it doesnt even belong.

 

Why does it feel like you have been bullying her on all of her threads?
The poor girl needs some help...

There's a mental health forum, theres also this thread of mine here.
And you can PM me if you want. I have a cousin who used to cut, sadly, it's actually pretty common among girls your age.

 

I couldn't really tell you why you perceive honesty as bullying. That's not the definition of "bullying". Your answer would lie within yourself on that one.