Just going in and out doesn't really do it for me, i like that "come here" motion the best or just pressing against the g-spot. Just be experimental and when she moans or squirms with delight stick with those
Hand jobs now that could be anything from giving her a nice back massage to stroking her genitals. So if its a back massage (?) I say yes & to touch her anywhere else - yes again. They soon let you what turns them on in one way or another.
Yes, hitting the G-spot is where it is at!!! It can feel AMAZING, especially if she doesn't know she is a squitter until you hit that spot. :2thumbsup: