why is my girl doing these things??

alright soooooo my girl and i have a couple rules for each other...not biggns or anything yo. alright...the rule is that i cannot talk or befriend with any girls...her rule is the same but no guys......why is it that i see her conversateing with some guy at a table in her work? and why is it when i ask her about it she tells me that she was sitting at a completely different table than him and that she wasnt talking to him and that he didnt say a word to her followed with an attitude of ignorance....after she said that i began to ask her a couple more questions....then all of the sudden this guy that she was sitting with DID happen to be talking to her O_O....her excuse for talking to guys at her work isss that she doesnt want to be mean. and that shes not gna not talk to people she works with becuase she doesnt want to hurt their feeling or seem like a loser......BUT....i am still unable to conversate with buetiful women....i just dont understand...why is she aloud to break the rules if im not aloud to?...

 

This sounds like a very unreasonable rule for BOTH of you. As long as you not trying to cheap on each other, then you BOTH should be able to talk to whoever you want. Just my thought on the matter.

Who came up with this rule, if I may ask?

 

Ridiculous. She''ll loosen up when you two graduate from middle school.

You might want to unbutton your pants and check just below that little stick and see if there are a couple of round objects just dangling there. Ask dad what those are.

 

those rules seem a little crazy, maybe it's time to sit down and renegotiate

 

haha kk budd

 

she made the rules by the way

 

ok lemme put this in a way you'll understand.

liek, thisss grl is lyk totally wack sauce you know home sizzle? the rules are like woah don't even knooowww brrooo this gurl shuld lyk totally let you do your own thing if she trustssss youuu rite

 

lol

 

she came up with the rules

 

SO tell her the rules are fucked! Obviously they are not working!

 

thankyou for the advises kind gentlemen/women much luv

 

The rule "you can't talk with a guy/girl" is impractical. Not talking with co-workers is one example of where it fails.

Talk to her and change the rule, "I/you can get upset if you talk with guys/girls. My/your being upset won't make me/you a bad person. Its OK for either of us to be (a little) jealous."

 

how do you 2 idiots order food at a restaurant?

with sign language?

 

They will have to have both a male and female come take their order so they can each ask their respective server

 

I think that's a very very unhealthy arrangement. A relationship built on that unstable of a foundation could never work. You can't just pretend there aren't other people who could potentially be interested in your significant other. You can't constantly be living in fear of being replaced. And I'm assuming that's what it is. She needs to squash her insecurities and come to terms with her jealousy issues before you can progress to a deeper level. Just simply ignoring all the other women in the world will eventually get very difficult for you. And she'll continue to make excuses why it's not the same when she does it. Because she realizes when she's talking to these guys that she doesn't have any feelings for them. But she doesn't know that's the case with you, so she doesn't want it to happen at all. This is where you should refer to Scratcho's comment. lol

 

Why did you agree to this rule anyway?

 

theirs lot of ignorant people on this website.

 

^^ there are a lot of ignorant folks on the internet.

But if you ask a question, you are going to get answers that you don't agree with.
(What value is there in answers that you already know?)

 

oh my god. THERE'S WOMEN ON THIS SITE, YOU CHEATING CHEATER!!!!

 

^LoL