I have to admit I've used that phrase in bed, just through habit and exuberance. Hasn't been well received at all :-(
I personally don't like the word "****". I rarely use this word, and when I do, it is to convey my displeasure toward someone by referring to them as such. Even then, it's not the first word that would come out of my mouth. I have no problem with the word "shit" as I say it all the fuckin' time, but what I seem to despise is when it's in its past tense, "shat". I don't know why... And another instance when "shit" becomes a word that turns me off is when it's combined with "hole", or "-ter" in erotic literature. "Asshole", I can be ok with. But "shit hole" and "shitter" just sound too vulgar and crude to me.
I HATE it when guys talk about "doing me," have "done me," etc. I if you tell me you want to "do me," you never will. That's my story and I'm sticking to it
My wife never swears at all, and particularly hates people using the word ****. However the other day during a particularly intense and somewhat naughty love making she cried out "fuck my dirty ****" I'm not sure which one of us was more shocked. We did then disolve into hysterical laughter.
Has to be "fanny" for me. I am British so for any Americans your about 2 inches out. Any of the alternatives including pussy or **** I am fine with but Danny conjours images of an elderly relative.
The L-word is funny. I love hearing "I love you" as much as any Cinderella, but outside of a heartfelt confession, it is full of hypocrisy and gives me a rubbery one.
I get turned off when in the middle of sex he says tight pussy or good pussy. now if we are talking about or writing about it it is ok just not when we are in the middle of having sex anything but those 2 things