Anal sex advice

Hello everyone I have a questionable about anal sex to see if anyone can give me some tips. My wife loves anal sex, she can cum from it alone and no part of the actual act hurts her until I pull out? Yes we have plenty of lube and foreplay to relax her but everything it's over and I pull of she gets a deep aching pain for a few minutes, it's enough to bring her to tears and I feel horrible but it's how she wants it. Any tips would be great

 

Sounds like a cramp from the shock of removing your big dick from her ass. Kind of like taking a healthy shit too quickly. I'd suggest first, wait until she calms down after an orgasm before pulling out. Then do it slowly. Little by little. It could also be that your head is a little on the large size and pulling past the sphincter muscle is painful. Or she could be low in potassium, which is partially responsible for muscle relaxation. Lack of potassium can lead to cramping muscles. So tell her to eat more bananas. Another thought is that she may be tight inside so it might mean she needs to stretch out a little more inside. There are good butt plugs out there that can help.

 

Could be wind too lol

 

CrocDundee seems to be quite familiar with your dick, so take his(?) advice.

 

LOL CLASSIC! I knew this forum would be fun. Talked with the wife and she said its a burning feeling not a cramping feeling...

 

Are you pulling out too abruptly? You kind of need to let her "come down" a little bit first, and then slowly ease it out of her.

 

Nope, I pull out as slow as I possibly can.

 

Let it get soft, then pull out.

 

I think the dog method of waiting to get soft is what I'm gonna have to try.

 

Burning? What kind of lube are you using? You might want to try another lube. She could be sensitive to whatever you are using. It may sound odd, but a good anal lube is vegetable shortening. You know, like crisco. Its thick, slippery, it stays in place doesn't thin out quickly and its natural. You probably have it in your cabinet. Remember, there's no natural lube back there so use something that will stay in place throughout the session. When you two are into it, pain is minimized but intense pleasure. When its over, she might be feeling the pain that was there all along due to the wrong lube or lube thinning out.

 

We've found the silicone based works best we've tried numerous brands. I'm not sure my wife would be down with veg. shortening but ill mention it to her.

 

Thanks everyone for helping me try to figure this out its been helpful.

 

Anal sex is any type of sex that involves penetrating someone's anus. It carries some of the same physical and emotional risks as any other kind of sex.
Because for some people, it feels good. The anus has a lot of nerve endings that can provide pleasure when they're touched or stimulated.

 

Does she 'let you go' afterwards or does she keep her ass clenched? try with you not pulling out but with her letting you out, as if she was on the loo! try lubing up before coming out too xx

 

if you stick lube in my ass. youll leave with a black eye.

 

crisco wont be absorbed or processed by the body as well as most other water based lubes made with glycerin. however, deep throat saliva is the best... good way to get that is with some... deep throat also if its her own saliva she'll be better off with it too.. also handy because its always available. hehe..

 

Good old Vaseline. It's thick but it holds up nice. Just don't use too much. People say not to use it but the wifey likes it and its her rectum so whatever.

 

Vaseline's all well & good, but it can't be emphasised too much that no oil based lube should ever be used if you're using condoms. Water (or silicone) based ones only.

 

My vote is for vaseline too (sans condom, of course)