will a girl forget her first love? (she did nothing seriouse with him)

Hi there,

I actually know a girl, and i want her for marriage, she's a nice and beautiful but she still loves her ex,
whenever we talk about him she cries, he's her first love, she didn't kiss nor did she have sex with him,
just hanging out here and there, but she loved him!

So my question is:
if a girl fell in love with someone as her first love, but didn't do anything seriouse,
then she met someone as good as the other one will she forget about the first?

 

sounds like young love

 

Abdel,regardless of how you think she should feel,how she does feel is the reality.
Deal with it. Be her shoulder to cry on,her strength,her reason to look forward.
As time passes so will the intensity of her emotions.
The person she will see as her rock is you.

But,will she ever forget her 1st love? No. Would you?
If you can answer 'yes',then it wasn't love.
But a fond memory is not the same thing as a devoted present.

I wish you good fortune-but be patient.

 

definitely puppy love

 

@drumminmama:
take it as she loves me!

@puggybear:
the fact is she didn't do anything serious (sex) with him,
so if she loves me will she forget about him, i'm a handsom guy by the way!

 

And Very Modest Aswell....



Cheers Glen.

 

I thought I was in love with someone, but once I truly fell in love with another I realised that my first was just infatuation, wanting what I couldnt have and being young/misreading signals

 

My wife and I had a similar situation. The thing that I have learned is be with her in a way that you stand above him in her mind. Come out on top, it's great cause she loves me and has even admitted to having forgotten a lot of things about him. granted their relationship was a long time ago.

 

@GLENGLEN:
Of course

@MamaPeace:
i hope so

@riaf:
I'll take it as a hint

 

I know I'll never forget my first love. We never had sex either. We still talk from time to time. I will always care about him. But that was 20+ years ago. Things change and people move on. If its meant to be give her time.

 

I don't see why the fact that she didn't have sex with him means that she should be able to forget him. I mean, she could possibly get over it if she fell in love with you but most people don't ever forget their first love.

 

I haven't forgotten my first love but I don't want him.

 

You don't have to be intimate to fall in love. A woman usually falls in love because of the way she is treated by a man. Do we forget our first love? yes but we are such idiots that it takes us a while to forget . If she is still crying for him sorry to say but your not as good. You might have some better qualities but not as good. Give her time

 

Unless she has a brain injury, she is always going to remember him. But she will certainly be able to move on, he is an ex for a reason.

 

I remember a few loves of my life......each one has a certain place in my heart.

 

@Lvnfemale:
we are just starting our relationship, so she still didn't see much of me!

 

I'm still with my first love. 12 years woop woop.