Finally had some shex... Now what??

Sup!

Been a while since I was on this forum bitching and moaning about not getting any. lol, I kinda miss everyone! How are y'all doing??

So I got laid at long last, but I don't feel as great as I thought I would. It was a decent time! He wasn't a boyfriend or anything... Maybe that's why. I'd very much like to have sex with him again, and he says he does too, but we haven't spoken since. I'm not too bothered as to whether we do it again or not, I just wanna know if we can establish that kind of FWB relationship, if not then cool I'll just carry on the way I was before.

I busied myself with the gym and other things, managed to drop some weight, shape up. I rarely have time to do anything anymore, we were meant to get together weeks ago and we finally did 2 days ago. He seemed to enjoy himself, and kept expressing how glad he was that we finally got together. This is my first casual encounter too, I really have no clue how it works. I don't wanna talk to my friends about this as they won't be very helpful... They don't really do this kind of thing.

What do you guys reckon? I'll be happy to answer any questions!

 

Continue going to gym

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Different people feel different about sex. It was your first time, You will have questions brewing in your mind. "Did I do the right thing, did I do it right, on and on. If YOU didn't enjoy it, maybe it would have been better if you two were in love. Thats just how I feel. How DID you feel about it before, during and after? Whats happened, you can't change it, don't dwell on it. Do what you feel inside you! Make any sense!?

 

I diagnosed OP as a loud mouth and a codependent in sheep`s clothing on her first couple of posts, remember? You heard it here first.

Why do you think the world owes you interest in precisely the private moment you "finally" have sex?

BTW, did you say "reckon"?

 

somehow yr post remind me of the Peggy Lee song: "Is that all there is?"

 

What's wrong with that?

 

To you, nothing! :biggrin:

 

Post the video

 

Hehe, nice to see you again Cherea! I missed ya.

I dunno, I just felt like making a thread to bookmark the moment I finally got some. You jelly? Nah, but seriously, I just wanted to see if anyone understands how I feel. I feel a bit lost. Meh.

 

You`re not my type. Miss ya too!

 

I'll take that as a compliment lol

 

i reckon it's ok.

 

Like Lemmy said, the chase is always better than the catch.