Please help-I don't know if I should stress or chill out

I'm single.. I see a guy occasionally. When I say that though it's only been 4 times so it's very recent, I'm 38 and he's 24. He's been nagging for pics I wouldn't do it. But recently I tried to entice him and sent him a pic through the dating site I met him from. He sent me a txt straight away saying how much he liked it and wanted another. I said not till I get se of you. He gave me two. He has distinctive tatts in them.. Not that matters I suppose. I sent him another through mms. He is a very popular young guy. Without thinking!! He probably showed his friends. I don't know anyone he does but still.. Was this a huge deal?? If he shows his friends it's not what I want but what's the worst? These pics were very provocative and involved a toy. None had my face in them.. There were too, should I stress out or chill?

 

chill out and dont send naughty pics to people u dont know...ur old enough to know that.

 

I know... foolish. Would have thought it worse to someone I did know too well. Still can't trust them. I'm new to being single I've been in a very long term relationship. I'll never do it again. So why do guys do it.. All the time, do women do this normally?? Or am I just a victim of a guys persistence and stupidly gave in? :-/

 

If anything..I've learned from it. I won't do it again

 

I think you gave him a bit of trust and he turned around and did what a typical 24 year old tattoo'd popular guy would do

you might want to consider this as a window into the type of man you are getting involved with. If you want something non-serious, go for it, but I wouldn't get your hopes up about a guy like this if you are looking for something a little more serious.

That's just my own opinion though.

 

u don't actually know if he showed the pics to anyone... However, if u don't want nude pics of yourself all over the internet, yeah don't email them to people u barely know.

 

Chill. Keep it separate from email or text, and just post on the web with no face. Don't use your real name, refrain from details, don't become friends on FB.

 

You're 34-years old and have to ask total strangers if it's OK to send naked pictures of you to someone you hardly know? Are you friggin' serious? Please don't tell us you have kids. I'd hate the thought of knowing someone who was so out of touch has responsibilities for little ones. OMG !!!

 

dont sweet it

 

cb, I think you are being a bit harsh. Let people learn and share as if among gentle friends, maybe? Excited people make mistakes sometimes. Shrug.

 

If your face is not in them I would not worry about it! Do realize though when giving out pics on the internet that once you have they can end up anywhere. Nothing is safe on the net.

 

If he's even 24...

 

So what if pics of your snatch being teased by a toy end up with the other 4,576,523,890,454,309,298 others out there on the internet?

Don't sweat petty things............and as the saying goes, don't pet sweaty things either.

 

I think that you should just chill out and don't worry about it, i mean if there's no face then you shouldn't care I mean they all probably just thought it was hott.. lol. And maybe he just didn't show them i mean not all guys are sleazes.

 

I think youll be ok

 

I don't see what the big deal is. I probably have faceless naked pics on the internet. You didn't show your face. It's not like you want to run for president.

 

I really wouldn't worry about it.

CB, calm down.

 

Nah, long as there's no face!

 

No face = it could be anybody on the picture. Just relax.

 

Nothing wrong with sending a few naughty pics. Just don't make a video that gets posted all over the web. That could come back to haunt you