I am married for many years already, but before that I had sex with other guys of course, and all of them liked the way I would give them BJ. The last one would come just after 3 minutes, without me even really going for an orgasm. But here is the problem, my husband, he in turn almost never comes just by blowjob. Handjob on the other hand, more easily. At some point it is really frustrating, and it is kind of a turn off for me. I mean I tried different ways, and he says he loves the way I do it, but no cum. What do you guys think about that?
Maybe you should experiment more with his other sensitive areas - scrotum (?) - while giving him a blow job? He may find that a bigger turn on?
I personally enjoy BJs enormously. Perhaps try more "sloppiness"-maybe a nice-tasting lubricant if saliva isn't enough "POV" blowjobs- where you kneel down while he is standing and look up at him as you do it Good luck!
Thank you for telling me that, it helps. Cuz believe me I tried a lot. But then again I am thinking that some guys are naturally talented at giving orals, and some not so much. Maybe its just my technique
Oh I see where you going,lol. Let me ask you something; if you ejoy BJ so much, do you as well enjoy watching BJ porn? Can you tell from porn which girl is doing a good job and which not?
Have you thought about relaxing whilst giving him head. Dont think about trying to making him cum. Just relax and enjoy it and you never know he might just shoot. Dont beat yourself up about it, sex is meant to be fun
While you're going down on him, also incorporate your hand and jerk him of as well. The sensation of my wife rubbing my cock and sucking on my head is unreal and always makes me cum.
I would not take it personel at all! If he says he is enjoyong it he probably is. It is not that uncommon for a guy not to cum easy well getting head. I don't, but I can tell you it has nothing to do with the wonderfull job my lady is doing. Just like some guys are minute men when having sex and some can last forever.
Watching BJ porn, it's the enthusiasm that turns me on. If she is really into it, it's hot. You can show him you're really into it by: initiating the BJ, making eye contact, telling him how much you like it (maybe compliment his cock) and letting him cum in your mouth/on your face. If he isn't a guy that cums from BJs (like me), sense that he is getting close and guide his cock to your pussy so he can finish in you instead.
I don't see any problem with that. Some people cum from oral sex easily, others less so or not at all. If he cums from a handjob just incorporate your oral into a handjob, and then you are both happy and turned on!
I find the "finish" from a blowjob for me isn't as pleasurable as from good ol fashioned intercourse.. It will do in a pinch.. And I love getting a BJ to get started, but I love the finish inside her... Call me old fashioned lol... Actually, I find the "finish" from a handjob is also more pleasurable for me as well than the "finish" from a blowjob. Don't know why... Doesn't really make sense lol...
I used to have this girlfriend who had a nice little trick. She used to get a bottle of Scope mouthwash and rinse her mouth with it every few minutes. The cool mint on my dick drove me fucking crazy. Try it, you never know, it could work.
For me spending more time licking the head of his penis, and jerking him with my hand at the same time as he slides into my mouth usually works. Some of them really like you playing with their balls while you suck them. Try different things and see what he likes
