Lube first! Then get ready for some fun. I've tried fingers first, most so far is 6. Carrots and cucumbers are great. A cigar tube was prity good. Screwdriver handle, toothbrush and hairbrush for something different Recently though I got the courage up to buy some anal toys. They are awesome, I have a medium butt plug and two large anal dildos. Enjoy!
Sex toys designed for anal are the best. If you don't have any or are embarresed to buy them then go to the produce section and you will find all sorts of edible toys. Besides that use whatever you think looks like a penis and fuck it.
Get yourself one of the Aneros toys! They are made just for men and are great if you want to explore. Seriously...get one!
Maybe because it might feel good? Anal stimulation on men does NOT, repeat does NOT mean they are gay, and if they are so what. I will never understand why people insist that men playing with their anus = homosexuality.
You don't see a problem with stuffing mother's little helper in her son's butt? Or his sister's John Holmes special? At least ask first. And wash it after.
If you have any concern about being seen buying them in a shop, then get them from an online store. After all, there's more of them available now than actual sex shops, plus they have the added advantage of anonymity. Even payments are listed as having been made to a nondescript source, and deliveries are always made in plain packaging.
True - we all have our own individual tecniques of stimulating ourselves in ways other's see as unusual or aren't considered normal for a straight guy - or woman. Some of us are just a bit more adventourous aren't we cliffyb111 etc
I'm a straight male, married for nearly 20 yrs now. While I've always been fascinated by women who like anal, I also play. When I was working my wife up to experimenting with anal play, I was experimenting on myself for both pleasure and knowledge of what feels good and what doesn't. As it turns out, it was a good guide for knowing what to do to her. I've played with cucumbers, I've made my own from silicone, rubber hoses (sealed and capped with rounded silicone ends), vibrators, fingers, I even tried to get my fist in there (almost). One time, I was able to wrap my own dick around and shove it in there. It wasn't easy but it made me explode once I did it. More recently with my wife and I purchasing toys, we bought some double ended very flexible dildos. I bought a 18" x 2 in diameter big pink thing. She loves it and I use it to finish her off some nights. I have yet to stick it in her ass but I can tell you that I have. Wow... nice. I've been trying to go past the point of the first bend and can do it now most times. Getting that big monster past the bend and deep as it will go is erotic and feels real good. So I'm working my wife into this too. She doesn't know I play like that but knows that I have. I told her. Now she likes anal more than vaginal sex and I'm happy to make her happy. Look... once you get past the weirdness of it and learn to enjoy the feelings, it really is an erotic area. I think what stops a lot of guys is the stigma that if you enjoy that, you are at some level gay. I personally have zero gay feelings towards other men or boys and in fact it feels repulsive to think about. But thinking, looking and enjoying female anal play is most erotic to me. Personal exploration is erotic to myself as well.
Likewise! But unfortunately my wife hates Anal and thank god she doesnt know im doing same thing as you! Wish my Wife has same dirty desire lik yours! Im wondering how deep did u ever go ^^ My max is about 7 inches..
We have been married for 29 yrs & I'm also like you - I like exploring my own erotic pleasures & seeing how far I can push my bounderies in a safe way without causing pain anywhere. I like trying to insert vibrators anally till it reaches the 1st curve & find it a real turn on trying to go in slightly further. But it takes a bit of patience & not tensing up too much.
