Hello to all.. Whilst questioning & scrutinising my being for the last year or so, I find myself gravitating towards these kind of forums in search of like minded thinkers. I hit the big 40 this year, & it's put the speed of time into perspective. I have started to question the things that I have classed as important for so many years. By this I mean materialistic goals. They no longer seem important or worthwhile, because it's my health & happiness at stake whilst trying to attain them. True happiness has to come from within, it's the only way. For me, it's now all about scaling down & breaking away from the ball & chain around my ankle that I have slowly forged for myself over my lifetime. I am from the UK, but have headed to Spain for an alternaive way of life. I look forward to some healthy conversations on here with anyone that feels the same!