Guys : Do You Get More Turned On If She Masturbates You?

Which gets you aroused / turned on the most : When your female partner masturbates you, or when you perform it yourself?
Recently my wife pleasured me with her hands for about 20 - 30 mins - it started out with her just massaging my penis & scrotum at intervals. She gradually bought me to the stage of orgasm. It was the best & longest time she has spent arousing me that way & I just lay & enjoyed it for as long as she wanted too - it was totally amazing.

 

gee let me think...

 

guys, do you get more turned on if a supermodel rubs her naked vagina on your chin or if you slip and fall into a large pile of cow manure?

 

Psychologically, it's so much better when my wife does it. Physically, I know my body the best and can edge myself just right, so physically it is better when I do it.

 

I love it when my wife does it to me. She oils me up and just slowly slips up and down and massages my scrotum as well. Eventually she oils up her finger and slides it in and out of my butt while she gets faster and faster with the other hand. Doesnt take long and i blow all over my stomach, her hand, and once, my own neck!

 

Haha. No shit.

Great BL image.

 

There's a big difference between being physically turned on & psychologically turned on. Enjoyment from Physical Stimulation is one thing. Psychological Enjoyment is quite another.

Due to side effects of epilepsy medication I am on, I have problems with retarded ejaculation when having penetrative sex or when being masturbated by a partner. This means it's very rare that I can actually climax without masturbating myself. However, despite having to resort to self masturbation in order to physically reach an orgasm, I still far prefer having a partner take me to the point where I can tell I have to take over in order to finish off. Occasionally I can masturbate myself to the point where I can sense an impending orgasm, and then hand back over to my partner (or re-penetrate) in order to finish off.

 

Were you watching when I did that??

Anyway, it really got me going. So much better than the udder thing.

 

Yeah, I love hand jobs and blow jobs from the wife... Can't disagree there.. I do however, disagree that it can be called masturbating... Unless of course you are theoretically raping her hand while she is sleeping LOL...

Wait.. You AREN'T doing that... Are you????

 

I most definitely get much more enjoyment when my partner masturbates me than when I do it myself ... and I'm damned good at doing it my self.

When I masturbate at least part of my awareness must be directed to the control of my hands and fingers ... lest I just stroke, pump, and squirt like a teenager.

When I'm sitting in a reclined position and my partner is on the floor between my knees I can let my total awareness focus on the physical sensation she's creating. A long term highly skilled partner doesn't even need to be told to slow down or stop or be careful ... she can put 100% of her awareness into the task at hand ... much like a gifted musician play her favorite instrument ... and time everything up to and including the orgasm to perfection. On top of that I have the visual feast of my cock being slowly teased to orgasm.

My previous sex partner of ten years and I found that taking turns in the chair ... maybe five to ten minute turns ... we could go to almost any level desired ... and last as long as we wanted. When she was seated in the chair I could alternate between giving her head and sliding my cock inside her ... and when getting too close to coming it was easy to switch back to using my tongue and lips.

Present sex partner isn't into sex at all, but has learned to give fantastic hand/head jobs ... which she recently started doing again after withholding for a long time. Makes me a happy camper!