Hello, all. So I am seventeen and I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. I am bi but have never been with a girl and my boyfriend said that if I ever had the opportunity to have sex with a girl that I should and he wouldn't mind. Do you think he was sincere and would not get mad if I were to have sex with a girl? Because I think I may get a chance soon.
I think he was probably being truthful...if he knows you are bi, then he knows that being with another girl is a possibility. You are so young, to be truly locked into anyone...have fun.
who can tell about yr boyfriend, Madelyn? lots of people say one thing and do another later. the important thing is what YOU want to do! see, if you shape your life according to the wishes of others ... you'll end up being very busy doing stuff you don't really want to do and you'll wonder where all your earlier years went. if you live in such a way, chances are you'll get to your mid-thirties and have a big emotional dummy-spit about doing for others and not yourself. lots of women do this during their mid to late thirties ... and the cause of much of their reaction boils down to unassertive or uninformed choices earlier in life. so ... if you'd like to test yr sexuality ... it's up to YOU. not him. for what it's worth ... you have my blessings ...
