So my fiancee and I have been dealing with my "kinda" cuckold fetish for a few years now. A little back story. We've been together since the tail-end of our senior year in high school, we're now both in our mid twenties and obviously plan on getting married. Back in high school, she cheated on me, but not really in the sense that she stopped at the point where they were both half naked and making out. She called me cry and came clean. The following weeks were rough, but I came to accept it and to give her another chance since she insisted that she decided to cheat on me because she felt our relationship was ending, and that would ultimately sever it, but in the middle of it, realized that I was the only one she wanted to be with. Another reason why I decided to stay with her was because it REALLY turned me on. It wasn't until about two months after she cheated that I came clean and told her that the thought of her having sex with other guys turned me on. She thought it was kind of weird at first but being the intelligent girl she is, she decided I couldn't be the only one with this fetish, which lead her to discover the world of "cuckolds". So, we bounced the idea around in our heads for awhile, we would get close to inviting guys over but then didn't, we've purchased dildos and I'll fuck her with the dildo while she thinks and says other guys names, she'll masterbate me while telling me stories about fucking her old boyfriends or the one night stands she had in the past. I've even told her that if she ever got the urge to cheat on me that it would be okay as long as she informed me/invited me...that's never happened. All of this really gets me going. But, we both decided that if she actually slept with another guy, it might ruin the relationship with both love and cherish right now. Another layer to this whole thing is, I kind of consider myself bi-sexual. She know's I am, and she knows that I fooled around with a guy back in high school going as far as him penetrating me, but I was never into kissing guys or performing anal on them, I preferred giving blow jobs and getting fucked. Currently I'm not really into it as I use to be, but part my fetish of her fucking other guys coincides with my cock fetish. For example, watching a guy fuck my girl, creampie her, then having her force me to eat her out really turns me on. Or another example, have a cock go in and out of her while I lick her clit as the guys cock pops out now and then and ends up in my mouth. Or even having the guy have his way with my girl then fucking me while I eat her out. What are your opinions on this? Also, when I get into a rut and all I want are the things stated above, she sometimes gets emotionally hurt because she 9 times out of 10 doesn't want to think about anyone else but me because as she says she, "loves me too much to even think about that." She's great to me, she knows all my deep/dark secrets and still loves me just as much as if I weren't into twisted fetishes. Any suggestions on how to fulfill my fantasy while not actually involving another guy?
You mean: how can I have my cake and eat it too? seems to me you're not that unusual in yr desires. and yes what you're talking about is bi stuff. but so what! women and men have the same range of feelings ... or an equal capacity for feelings. thus feelings are crosssgender, right? I think it's also normal for young lovers without much experience of the world to wonder what the rest of the world is like. this happened to J and I who married at 18 and 19. we found a marriage CAN remain stable while third parties are introduced for sex. happy travelling .... (PS didn't like yr fantasies much.)
Well, let's put it this way, the human race isn't exactly hard wired to only have one partner. The whole "cuckold" thing is not something I ever understood the whole cuckold thing, but I do know that it can be pretty hot to think of your wife/gf doing it with another chick lol Are you sure you guys aren't swingers? swingers are easy to find, couples who interchange and are fine doing it. It can be kind of hard at first, breaking into the world, as you know it can be embarrassing or if you are shy etc. Happy Hunting!
Any suggestions on how to fulfill my fantasy while not actually involving another guy? Sounds like you guys have covered that about as well as you possibly can. If playing out the fantasies by talking about them during sex aren't enough for you and the thought of another guy doing her is too much for her, I don't see a way forward. Hope you guys can work it all out.
Well, there is ONE other thing you could do, short of involving another guy... And that's get one of those life sized sex dolls for women. And even then, it might not really be enough to get you there... The important thing to remember, is that you need to know the boundaries to which you are both comfortable, if it gets to the point where one or the other of you aren't comfortable with something it could all go to crap. And remember, it's one thing to have the fantasy, it's completely another to have it become reality. You could decide in the middle it isn't for you.... Then where would you be? Sort of like my fantasy of being with two chicks at the same time... AWESOME fantasy, the reality... NOT SO MUCH! (I'll leave it at that)
Thanks for the replies everyone. I am trying to have my cake and eat it too. It can become difficult because even when I get her to fantasies about other guys, she sometimes gets frustrated because it hurts her feelings thinking about anyone but me. Also, I have noticed, I get all these thoughts that really turn me on. A lot of the cuckold and bi-sexual stuff when I really get into things, but once I orgasim I get this feeling of regret along with a relief that I didn't go though with any of the, what some may consider, abnormal fantasies.
