I had a very good experience with a transgendered person. She was kind hearted, a joy to talk to and an all around very pleasant person. The visit turned somewhat physical in nature and I was surprised at how turned on I was. I have never considered myself bisexual, not that the title affects me one way or another as I grew up in a very liberal area. I don't find men attractive, but do find transgendered woman more appealing than your standard women. I guess I am struggling with understanding why I am so interested in the male anatomy on a female body.
I enjoy the softness and the curves of the female form and that is what I am attracted to the most. I enjoy very femine figures, very curvy. I don't know when I intoduced the thought that the addition of male anatomy would complete the picture, but that's honestly how I feel. It's not a fetish, I'm not a chaser, I honestly believe that what I described is the ideal for me. It's just as an ideal woman for 1 man may be to thin or too thick or too curvy or not curvy enough for another.
flight,don't question it mate-you're a lucky bloke who's found the very thing that pushes your buttons. Go enjoy yourself,bro.
So ask yourself this, if your friend had all the surgeries, and was anatomically female, would you still be interested?
Attracted to? Yes. As interested in? Probably not. She is beautiful, no doubt, but for me, honestly, I enjoy everything about her as she is.
Well, at least you say you prefer transgendered women (with penises) to "standard women". I guess the question that arises from this, is does that mean that you view trans women who have had re-assignment surgery as "standard women"?
I just want to add those that have not had all the operations still want to be treated as a woman a penis should not be the judge of ones true personality
Never been with a transgendered woman, but I would think that it would be a wonderful time...would love to give it a try...
There is a lot of men with this particular fetish, and I think it does make them bi, as the presence of the male sex organs on the body is key to their attractions to transgender women. These men are not interested in post-op transsexual women, or pre-ops who hate their genitals and don't want to use them in sexual activity.
That makes me wonder: Is sexuality based on the actual sex, or the attraction to a presumed gender? There are shelves of research papers for that!!!
Straight people have been grossed out at the idea of bi-sexual relations for centuries. It's really a matter of comfort, open-ness and a bit of cultural brainwashing. If the OP has the balls to make said jump, more power to him. It doesn't have to be 'disgusting' at all. Sex is sex. :daisy:
If she makes you happy, then go for it. As you said, she is gentle and an enjoyable person to be around. It's not necessary to attach a label to yourself, especially based on only one experience.
