Have any of you had a polyamory relationship? I have been invited to join a husband and wife in Nebraska for just such a relationship. I have heard more and more about them ever since.
They can be very nice if everyone is loving and mature. Be sure to lay ground rules in advance. No one should have any reservations or jealousy. I recommend reading "The Ethical Slut". It's a book full of very helpful suggestions on how to negotiate these relationships. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ethical_Slut
They have been in poly relationships in their pasts, so they have filled me in and have invited me in. I would really like to join them, but for the time being am tied to where I am until divorce is final. I t really sounds like something that would interest me though.
Please clue me up a little more ... Are we talking about you moving in with these people ... rather than being invited to form an occasional threesome?
I had started emailing the wife, and she cleared it with her husband to keep going with me, since then the three of us have continued emailing, sent pics of each other, etc. I would go down there to them in Nebraska and stay with them for awhile at least, and see where things went from there.
Open relationships? Yes, I have. Two. A threesome? Yes, I have. One. A bunch of lovie-dovies living in the same house and getting into each other`s business? Not interested.
so if yr going to "... see where things went from there" you have no clear goal, right? and 'polyamory' centres on notions of 'love', right? yet I can't see you've mentioned 'love' in the things you say. so, seems to me there is little or no basis for enduring relationships here ...
Ooooh, you're harsh As I have said, we have not met in person, can you truly love someone that you have never even met? I don't know. I would have no clear goal, that's true. I actually probably will not even stop there when I leave here for good on my way back home to New England.
