you are very nice looking and you look like someone with a good sense of humor and that to me and many females is more important than anything else. You'll make you way, relax and just have fun! I feel that younger people tend to take life way to seriously. Just make the best of what you have. If you are happy - and I truly believe that happiness is a choice - so if you are happy it will show and will attract people to you.
evantree, where do you live? maybe that's a factor, in some places, the pale blonde look is hot because it's special, in other countries it's more common. anyway, i think you're hot enough
No not bullied at all...As I would have to lay them out. But guys as well as girls have sayed things that make me kind of embarrassed. One girl when I used to go to high school told me, "You're pretty." lol
That makes you feel insecure? Just to point out, that's a COMPLIMENT. Women love pretty/beautiful men. Johnny Depp is one of the biggest heartthrobs there is, and he's absolutely pretty! I adore pretty men... the prettier the better. Right now I'm dating a big, tall, manly man, and while I am enjoying being with a tall handsome muscular type, it's a definite departure from my "style", which is more slender, pretty men.
I don't exactly think you're 'pretty', more cute than anything but I can't see anything wrong with a man being pretty or a woman, for that matter, being thought of as handsome. Seriously, we've all become brainwashed by Hollywood's absurd ideas about how our species should look.
There was even this one time I was in class, and this girl was talking about how all guys are assholes and are all the same.. I said "Thats not true, I don't act that way." She literally said, "Pssh, that's cause You're not a GUY."
That's because she's an ignorant, narrow minded bitch thoroughly brainwashed by the media's mindless propaganda telling us all what we should look like.
Or skip all that nonsense and 5. like the way you look. Going the route of "Am I ________??" is going to murder ya, my man. Though it can happen to anyone. Sometimes I wonder about myself too
She was making a mistake and lumping all men together under certain behavior, and then deciding that because that's "guy" behavior, males who don't behave that way aren't really "guys". It's a lot like the "you're not like other girls" thing some men do... it's just a convenient way to discount/ignore information that doesn't fit her preconceived ideas.
Oh boy! I feel a service coming even though I said *Good Luck*. What exactly are you trying to ask grown folks, mostly woman? Reasurance, Pitty, Sexy, If your gay or not, etc? Some folks can kiss my ass, however I am into bodybuilding, wife is into figure, but you assumed earlier that you had to be jacked on "steroids" and big trucks. Its plain you are a very confused young man, maybe to many video games during childhood scarred you, IDK. I was just showing you how you could make changes that would help you decide without asking others really. I saw a bunch of good post on here for the most part. I think ol' buddy here needs to find himself on a deep level, and then the women will come. Pssssst, do that bald fade thing, LOL!
Definitely easy on the eyes...I think you should stop worrying about what everyone else thinks. Yeah, I know - easier said than done but that's the only way you're going to become happy with your physical appearance. Embrace what you are. And that doesn't mean you should just give up, not exercise or try to look good. By all means! Try! Because a woman can definitely tell when you're letting yourself go. I guess what I'm trying to say is to just relax a bit...just relax ~Ashley
Evan tree I don't BS I'm gonna tell you what I see. Your 20 yo, some men don't really start showing there man features until 25+ (in my hubbies case it was much older) enjoy it your gonna look very young when your over 70. As for the girl issue I think it's because your confidence is very low. Your a handsome young man and your personality seems very charming I can tell by this post. Id do you Stop listening to other people they are just bringing you down. Relax focus on what you want in your future. I'm pretty sure ladies are looking at you but you don't notice. Hope my words helped some.
Female opinion... It may seem very lame me asking my opinion but I just went through a very dark period in my life where I was hating myself to an extreme that was leading to very bad thoughts...I feel I will slowly fade back into this state of mind sadly though. Ive gotten more than enough Opinion from the Women, I am very thankful for that..
I think you're cute, though you don't look 20. If I was 3 or 4 years younger you'd totally be my type
And that , as you'll eventually work out, is your biggest mistake. You want the truth, you might want to start by telling the truth yourself. You may have problems growing facial and body hair, or maybe not. One of those pics are you with your shirt off, if you were self conscious about an inability to grow hair, why would you post it? If you dont have trouble, then why would you shave your chest if you are concerned with looking too young. I dont think I've read the truth yet in this thread