Do you hate me or something? I made it quite clear that people have called me 'easy on the eyes' and that I realize that...the problem is that is what you say to WOMEN and not men.
Hang on. It's possible that his view of himself as not being a great big muscular hunk is reflected in a lack of confidence that women pick up on and therefore loose interest in him. Just a guess. As to him being attractive or not he can park his boots under my bed any day but that aint gunna happen as I'm a fairy and he appears to be straight.
The term is "boyish". I'm 21 and have a patch of pube-like hair on my chin that makes me look like a goat.... people THINK I trim the sides.... Just take care of yourself, avoid plastics and shit with those estrogen-mimicing chemicals in them, eat right, and wait. I don't see any real problem.
Roorshack is dead right about avoiding estrogen like chemicals in plastics etc but the sad thing is they're everywhere in the environment. The biggest risk though is heating food with microwaves in plastic containers. Somewhat off topic but something we should all be careful of.
I think validation seeking behavior like posting up pics of yourself asking 'am I attractive' is something that might turn a lot of girls off more than what you look like.
I just think you loook like a really young 20 year old. Own it. Better to look too young than be a hard-living, rough-looking 20, and believe me, I've seen 'em out there.
I have to second what endnow said. Girls don't, for the most part, think men asking for validation is attractive. I think they read it as insecurity, lack of confidence, and a lack of ambition. And for them that's situation/male to avoid romantically speaking. Unfortunately I think men have a hard time balancing or understanding the difference between this and being a chivalrous and nice. So this is why the myth of "asshole jerks get the women" comes from.
Surely we can ask questions on a forum such as this we wouldn't normally dare ask prospective dates or even close friends? Anyhow, why would any girls he meets have to know he posted his picture here? Methinks you're all reading far too much into this as amateur psychiatrists. Besides, I crack a fat every time I look back at those photos. I'm sure he doesn't want to hear he's turning on a fairy but I have asked a few young lady friends for their reactions. Most thought him very cute with one saying " I know the type, he'd be dynamite between the sheets."
I don't think asking questions like this on the internet is a bad idea. It's kind of like a public survey; he gets to ask a question without a high level of personal risk, and may receive a reasonable diversity of replies from which to average his answers.
This, especially. Also, cans, of both the soda and soup types, are coated with these plastics. FRESH food is key. (the cans last longer that way, they resist corrosion or being eaten by acid.... and aluminium cans would give you alzhiemers without the coating, but it still looks like estrogen to your body) Though I confess to having done it, NEVER EVER EVER smoke pot through a crushed can with holes. If you do so, it's basically smoking estrogen-crack, I'm pretty sure. Not to mention cancer of all types.
There's nothing wrong with inherently asking questions like his here on this forum. I just pointed out one way his actions could be interpreted in real life that's all. To a point, feedback is cool, but I don't advocate someone relying on positive feedback online to give you the core confidence you need because that has to come from within.
Well, a 'core' usually is within and confindence does reside there but sometimes a little help from our friends helps nurture it into being.
What I wonder is why even though Evan has received opinions that he is nice looking, (although it's qualified with other feedback) then seems to resent that other types of men are just as desirable.