How many girls enjoy giving Blowjobs?

I really like it. I love the feeling of a cock in my mouth and I love the idea of it. I also like the power trip, having control over when or if he is going to cum. The only time I don't like it is when the guy gets all carried away and tries to shove it down my throat. But I don't like it whent he guy makes like a statue. I like him to get involved with a bit of controlled thrusting. My current BF is very good, he likes to "Fuck my Mouth" as he calls it. I particularly like to suck as hard as I can on just the head when a guy is cumming.

 

i absolutely love the feel of a cock in my mouth. the feel of the head, the veins, pulsing over my tongue, the taste of precum, the moans from him, feeling him hit the back of my throat. i don't mind an occasional thrust on his part, but my man understands me and reads me so he knows when to take the lead and push my head onto him and when to let me set my own pace. i have actually had some major orgasms while giving head. he doesn't even have to touch me. that's how much of a turn on it is for me....

 

yay..

 

The simplest way of intensifying your own sexual pleasure is to focus all you can on your partner.

This was the very first lesson I learnt when I lost my virginity. At first, as soon as I had achieved penetration I started to pound away, hammer & tongs, under the assumption that in order to stimulate a penis with a vagina, the action would logically have to be exactly the same as that of masturbation. Within a matter of seconds I was told to "Take it easy". I immediately did as I was told & slowed my pace right down. I then took to concentrating on following her body language, doing my best to give her what she wanted, at which point the sensations I started to receive myself absolutely rocketed.

Although this, in itself, may not seem to have much to do with the thread topic, it is relevant, as I am Bi, and I've found the same rules to apply when having sex with other men.

You have to give in order to receive.

 

I feel quite relieved to realise that a lot of women really do enjoy sucking cock and that I'm not the only one. I have four really close GFs and we've hung out together since before high school. All of them regard sucking cock as a bit of a chore and I always felt the odd one out. They all talk about sex quite a lot but I rarely join in because I always seem to be the odd one out over just about everything to do with sex.

Until I came on this forum they were my only real source of what was 'normal' apart from my own experiences. Now I'm starting to realise that I'm not as weird as I thought.

And I think people can learn a lot from this forum from the contributions that people make sharing their experiences and their likes and dislikes. I am learning so much and sometimes a few pointers can save a lot of embarassment.

The first time I sucked a cock I had no idea what I was doing. I was 14 and I latched onto it and sucked it like a lollipop as hard as I could. He came almost straight away (15 yo guys have a hair trigger) so it was OK, he was happy and I got a mouthful of cum and I assumed that this was normal, not nice, but part of the process.

 

I thought I was weird. I love to suck my husband's cock. We've been married for a little over 3 years and together for about 8 altogether now. He was and is the only guy I've ever been with sexually. I was scared to death to even try it for about a year then I finally tried and I loved it! I like it when he puts his hands in my hair when I do it, but he doesn't do that very often. I have a horrible gag reflex, but it has gotten better through the years. I am hoping to one day be able to deep throat. I never used to swallow, but recently have been and he loves that so much so I keep doing it. I don't like the taste, but its whatever.

My husband says none of his friends wives give blow jobs (like once a year and that is it). IDK we have a three year old daughter and after she was born we didn't have that much sex, but now we do a lot and I often use blow jobs for foreplay. He absolutely loves it if I suck him then ride him for a bit then suck him some more.

I was starting to think I was weird cuz all my girl friends are like "I hate sucking his dick blah blah blah" I'm always really quiet cuz I'm like "What! I love sucking his cock. I love him and he loves me sucking his cock." Just last night I drained him twice with my mouth then sucked him hard again and rode him.

 

Words alone can't express how much I love it! It's one of my favorite sexual acts. It's a pet peeve of mine when men think that women don't get anything out of bj's. That's garbage!

 

Such a relief. I would like to find a man that prefers oral sex over intercourse. You would think its common, but some guys do get bored of bj's. I've been told I give great head, but I will never get tired of it. I need a man that's just as enthusiastic about receiving as I am giving. Any tips on how to find him?

 

You just have.

 

Sign me up.

 

Have you two received a lot of bjs? I'm just wondering if the guys that get more excited at a woman liking bj's are the ones that haven't received a lot.

I read somewhere on a different forum that a man didn't get much out of penetrative sex and preferred bj's. Now, that's my kind of man! My idea of good sex is being on my knees, blowing a man while my clit is stimulated..and him cumming on my face to top it off.

Any other ladies like this?

 

Out of all of the million women out there, you're saying I'm the only one?

Considering that so many women complain about painful sex, I wouldn't be surprised to find a woman that prefers oral sex. Sure, a lot of women may hate giving blowjobs. But, I wouldn't say all women hate it.

 

hi there

 

I don't think I would go so far as to say I would prefer it, but would readily accept it as a substitute.

 

Judging as best I can, you're certainly not the only one. Nor are you in a majority.

But whether your enjoyment is shared by 1% or 40% of women, I couldn't say.

However, I'm happy to undertake a survey. It will involve, at least at the initial stages, all the straight women on HF in turn blowing me at 8 hourly intervals. I will then ask them to anonymously fill in a questionnaire and after the HF girls have finished (I estimate 5 months) I will publish preliminary results and approach the Health department for funding to expand the sample pool.

Oh yeah, and I promise not to enjoy it. Much.......

 

LOL!

My guy friend and I did discuss that society teaches women to not like it...I admit that I kept quiet when I heard a bunch of women saying that blowjobs are gross. I didn't want to be the odd one out saying "But, I love it!"

 

Sure. It's like anal. An ex of mine used to have mind-ripping orgasms from anal, such that she once passed out.

But with her women friends, she would express disgust and deny ever having done it. When I asked her why, she just shrugged and said she didn't want to appear to be a slut.

Men are no better, I hasten to add, especially Australian men, to whom an interest in anal with women = sick perversion and possibly equates to torturing small furry animals.

Shrug. I hate societal attitudes to sex, and the whole Judeo-Islamic-Christian religious propoganda that besmirches sex and makes it seem shameful.

Good luck to you, AB. Maybe you're what Dylan meant about the answer blowin' in the wind......

 

While I do love getting bj's I would admit that after a while I would miss the ol penetration, especially doggy style.. However, in my bachelor years you would have been the perfect fuck buddy/girlfriend amethyst!

I can't see many guys complaining about that!!

 

My wife loves giving me bj's, she loves to see me enjoy it.

For me it is absolutely necessary that the lady enjoys it. If I'd know she does it against her will, that would be a total turn-off.

 

I love it! Total control over him, really turns me on. Gets me so hot just thinking about it. Even got a book about how to give the best blowjob, how to totally control when he gets off, a few years back (;