Hey, I need some help please. I was in a relationship with this girl for about a month but she broke it off. This happened about a month ago already. We were having an argument over text and the result was her telling me its over. It was pretty hard for me and I actually miss her like crazy. We didn't have any contact for two weeks, until I texted her that I was sorry for the argument. I also said that I always liked her and always had a great time with her, and then she agreed. Then I told her it would be nice to date again, to which she replied that she doesn't know what to think about that. We kind of stopped talking at that point. A few days I texted her asking how her weekend was. We had a bit of an exchange, she would be to the point. Then I suggested that we hang out, but she didn't reply. A few days later I asked her how she was doing. She didn't reply. Later that day I ended up texting her that I missed her and that I would like to see her again. She didn't reply. I texted her again this friday telling her to have a good weekend, and again tonight (monday) asking her how her weekend went. She hasn't got back to me. We always had a good time together and I've developed feelings for her. I would really like to make up with her but she doesn't seem to interested. I'm pretty sure we left on good terms. It wasn't much of an argument. But I don't know what I should do. I guess I've been kind of clingy and that can't be helping. Its hard not to I miss her. Its possible she may just be too busy. She works seven days a week and she just moved into a new place so she's probably busy unpacking still. I've been out with a couple girls since then, and casually chatting with a few others, but really I just want her back. She hasn't told me what she wants, or that she doesn't want to talk to me. But its obvious she doesn't want to talk. Should I just move on? Need advice please.
You've texted her way to many times already without her replying... if a girl did that to me i'd be thinking she's way to clingy and be even less interested. My girlfriend does this sometimes, or if i dont reply for a long time she'll call me that way i have to get up to check my phone.. i personally find it to be weird at times lol
She actually got back to me last night and we texted several times. It was pretty light hearted. How can I get back into her good books?
Honestly, this girl doesn't seem right for you. We have all had that girl that we know isn't into us like we are into them. Some of us let go fast and some hold on for way too long. It's your decision which one you want to be. My advice....let her go.
You should just move on dude. You don't need to waste your time over someone who could care less. I know how it feels though. It sucks. I had the exact same experience. I had an argument over a text and then she called it off as well. She wouldn't ignore me but whenever I mentioned anything about getting back together, she just wouldn't reply to me. So, realizing that the spark wasn't there anymore, I made a last attempt and did a picture for her saying, "I wish things could be the way they were." I sent her the picture, and then I cut all ties. I just deleted her number and moved on after waiting a few days for her to reply. I let it go. Believe me, it's for the best. You will find someone better man! Don't give up.
