An orgasm the way of showing us that we could have such pleasure enjoyment with our own bodies! Ladies I'm not a professional but first you need to relax And enjoy sex dont get so tensed up when your having it I know I always say that. If you can't relax practice when your alone by playing with yourself. We all know the famous clitalit massage rub tug whatever you do you are going to get that orgasm easy yup. But what about the rest of your vagina woman always tend to forget about it . Next time you play with yourself put your fingers in you and massage your g spot make sure you are RELAXED insert your fingers facing up and gently rub the wall enjoy it play with it massage tap you will find it keep trying to add to it play with your clit with you thumb. Remember it's your body enjoy it. Then when you have sex you will know where to aim that head by moving your body around. There is also an a spot. Ladies you just have to move around enjoy and you will find every orgasm spot in your precious best friend "your VAGINA"