My ethnicity is Indian and as you can probably guess I have brown skin. On my ass I have some darker brown birth marks that I'm incredibly self-conscious of especially when I'm having sex with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to this current boyfriend and so we're not incredibly adventurous in the bedroom yet, especially as he's not greatly experienced either, despite us being in our early 20's. Because of these birth marks I tend to try and always face him during sex, or if I'm walking around naked I try and face him and walk backwards in a non-obvious way. I just need to know, do guys really care about these kind of things? I just get incredibly self-conscious as I have seen porn in the past and girls tend to have even skin tone on their ass's and I just feel incredibly inferior. I really want to try and be a bit more experimental, but trying doggy-style sex positions etc is just not an option for me at the moment with this mentality I have about the birth marks.
Didn`t read whole post. I`ve had sex with a Japanese chick who had a birthmark on her ass. Used to turn me on to no end.
It's quite big though, on both cheeks, and they look like scars/stretch marks even though they are neither.
Don't ever compare yourself to porn stars. That isn't real life. You should be proud of what you have. I like scars and what not. tells a story and gives character. My guy has a lot of scars and I love every one of them.
Trust me he is NOT going to care if he really likes you. I actually tend to like stretch marks...it means a woman has curves! And I know this is a birthmark, but he is gonna turn you over and think your ass is absolutely gorgeous. Just let it go - and by the way - if he does comment on it, he's a huge douche. As for the porn thing - don't ever take that crap seriously. Don't get me wrong, I like porn, but you have to understand that everyone has make up all over their bodies and are incredibly airbrushed. You're over-thinking this. When you're ready, get on your hands and knees and let him ride you like crazy. Enjoy it, don't get caught up in this mentality.
What porn actors, male and female, have is make up, lighting and airbrushing. I have a butterfly shaped birthmark. Not every partner comments. The ones that did were positive. One did ask if it was henna.
Quite frankly, when it comes to having sex, most men are far from being fussy about aesthetics - especially once they reach the point at which imminent penetration is a certainty. This is when the primaeval hormones kick in & the one & only urge they have is to plug themselves in & get all those nerve endings stimulated.
That gives them an aiming point when they pull out... Seriously, don't stress about it, OP. Any man who would be bothered by it isn't worthy of seeing it.
Nah he isn't gonna give a crap. Tell him upfront so that you are not expecting him to be shocked about it, that way you can get past this and relax during sex. PS. I have a birthmark on my butt cheek that says "tenac" though I never knew what it meant.
I have a small scar on my arse (fell off a trampoline as a child and became impailed on part of a previously torn down fence) I was always, always, always terrified to having anyone see it. I'd always position myself so no one could see it, or cover it with my hand. Then a guy I was with spotted it when I was changing and asked how I'd manage to hide it (not that it is big or anything) considering he is round there so often. He said it didn't bother him and if it ever bothered them in the future then I probably shouldn't be having sex with them. He was so, so right. Almost over night I started to enjoy sex a lot more because I wasn't constantly trying to cover up something inconsequential.
I Am Somewhat Confused By The Female Perspective Here, I Always Assumed The Girl Was Face Up In The Missionary Position, But These Girls Are Worried About What Their Ass Looks Like.... Cheers Glen.
My wife’s sister Anne has a birth mark on her right ass cheek. Anne and I dated for about a year and we started fucking about 6 months into the relationship before I met her older sister Mary my wife. Back to the birth mark I would always kiss it during forplay. Anne has a nice bubble butt and when I would fuck her from behind her ass cheeks would jiggle and sometimes I would pull out and cum on her birth mark.
