People abuse and take you lightly, or label you clingly and don't want nothing to do with you if you're friendly, lovey, peacy. (Obv. not everyone.) What's up with that? Is it all in my head? I find often times I have to CONSTRICT myself to fit the mold of everyday. Shit is annoying at times. To the point where I'm convinced a single text, 2-4 sentences long screams too much love and peace (i hate the word clingly, but that's the label). How am I supposed to fight my self-nature and be happy? How am I supposed to be myself yet not get dogged on for not putting up walls or apathy when I talk to people? Damn you.. :computer:
I focus on the Haters gonna Hate Gotta learn to brush 'em off and find peace in people that can support you!
I have this problem too. I can't talk to people. It's almost like everyone around me is a robot, theres no love, no empathy, no feeling. It's all selfish this and that. I try and say 'fuck it, I'll be myself' but where is the line drawn? I'm avoided when I'm myself lol. This is why I hibernate every year for 12 months
I think that you just need to find a hippy community go join a commune or get together with the rainbow family there's really no place that is completely free from bullshit, that's just life. you can find a niche though where you are happier than you are now hope that you find it!
what people think of you is THEY'RE problem. no excuse to screw up the kind of world you and they still have to live in. which is precisely what aggressive thoughtlessness and thoughtless aggressiveness does. an eye for an and a tooth for a tooth and the whole world is blind and toothless. aggressive thoughtlessness and thoughtless aggressiveness are LEARNED behavior, the myth of their being self nature is a lie. i'm not attracted by gayness. i'm repelled by masculinity, femininity and any other gender pseudo-excused behavior. the decency 'god' gave an effing piss ant, never made what anyone has between their legs, which ever it is, fall off, and it doesn't take rocket science either. its called having a little bit of class. also known as maturity and growing up.
Perhaps look at your way of communicating (verbal and perhaps nonverbal too)? Have to say based on your posts you don't seem too clingy or too much whoring with a peace and love attitude to me at all though. But perhaps irl people associate the way you bring your peace and love attitude with something unpleasant. Like being really clingy is just experienced as unpleasant in general.
peace and love are each preferable to their opposite. neither are all you need. diversity being reality, there is pain down every path, but also reward for causing least harm, whatever others might condemn for the avoidance of causing more.
